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Hello friends

I hope you are all well. I am grateful for your support of me and my kids and for standing by me, but there is very bad news Unfortunately, GoFundMe has closed the fundraiser for me and my kids. After freezing it for several months, approximately four months, and after submitting the information required for the review process, GoFundMe closed the fundraising today. After it reached $117,000, it gained 39,000 and lost approximately $73,000.

It will never be easy to reach this mileage. It took me a lot of time, effort, and effort to be able to save money for me, my children, and my family. If you receive a refund, please re-donate through the Chuffed.org link or the PayPal link. I need your support, standing by my side again, and all hope and trust in you

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Hello friends

I hope you are all well. I am grateful for your support of me and my kids and for standing by me, but there is very bad news Unfortunately, GoFundMe has closed the fundraiser for me and my kids. After freezing it for several months, approximately four months, and after submitting the information required for the review process, GoFundMe closed the fundraising today. After it reached $117,000, it gained 39,000 and lost approximately $73,000.

It will never be easy to reach this mileage. It took me a lot of time, effort, and effort to be able to save money for me, my children, and my family. If you receive a refund, please re-donate through the Chuffed.org link or the PayPal link. I need your support, standing by my side again, and all hope and trust in you

@colorisbyshe @tamamita @tatzelwurming @tamarrud

@bestdressedchuuya @beserkerjewel @extremelycursedimages @ezrazone

@transastronautistic @thegreatlearning @the-arachnocommunist @thegreatphantasm @buckyclevens @bunnymoon-phase

@spacebeyonce@11thsense @boobieteriat @omegaversereloaded @sporesgalaxy @sergle @wolfythewitch @spongebobssquarepants

Hello friends

I hope you are all well. I am grateful for your support of me and my kids and for standing by me, but there is very bad news Unfortunately, GoFundMe has closed the fundraiser for me and my kids. After freezing it for several months, approximately four months, and after submitting the information required for the review process, GoFundMe closed the fundraising today. After it reached $117,000, it gained 39,000 and lost approximately $73,000.

It will never be easy to reach this mileage. It took me a lot of time, effort, and effort to be able to save money for me, my children, and my family. If you receive a refund, please re-donate through the Chuffed.org link or the PayPal link. I need your support, standing by my side again, and all hope and trust in you

@colorisbyshe @tamamita @tatzelwurming @tamarrud

@bestdressedchuuya @beserkerjewel @extremelycursedimages @ezrazone

@transastronautistic @thegreatlearning @the-arachnocommunist @thegreatphantasm @buckyclevens @bunnymoon-phase

@omegaversereloaded @punkitt-is-here @tamamita @skunkes @ot3 @valtsv @wolfertinger666 @paper-mario-wiki @nyancrimew @spongebobssquarepants @sabertoothwalrus @komsomolka @sawasawako @hotvampireadjacent @certifiedsexed @isuggestforcefem @3000s @ankle-beez @pissvortex @prisonhannibal @neechees @afro-elf @vampiricvenus @turtletoria @marxism-transgenderism @beetledrink @bevsi @feluka

Hello friends

I hope you are all well. I am grateful for your support of me and my kids and for standing by me, but there is very bad news Unfortunately, GoFundMe has closed the fundraiser for me and my kids. After freezing it for several months, approximately four months, and after submitting the information required for the review process, GoFundMe closed the fundraising today. After it reached $117,000, it gained 39,000 and lost approximately $73,000.

It will never be easy to reach this mileage. It took me a lot of time, effort, and effort to be able to save money for me, my children, and my family. If you receive a refund, please re-donate through the Chuffed.org link or the PayPal link. I need your support, standing by my side again, and all hope and trust in you

@colorisbyshe @tamamita @tatzelwurming @tamarrud

@bestdressedchuuya @beserkerjewel @extremelycursedimages @ezrazone

@transastronautistic @thegreatlearning @the-arachnocommunist @thegreatphantasm @buckyclevens @bunnymoon-phase

@omegaversereloaded @punkitt-is-here @tamamita @skunkes @ot3 @valtsv @wolfertinger666 @paper-mario-wiki @nyancrimew @spongebobssquarepants @sabertoothwalrus @komsomolka @sawasawako @hotvampireadjacent @certifiedsexed @isuggestforcefem @3000s @ankle-beez @pissvortex @prisonhannibal @neechees @afro-elf @vampiricvenus @turtletoria @marxism-transgenderism @beetledrink @bevsi @feluka

Hello friends

I hope you are all well. I am grateful for your support of me and my kids and for standing by me, but there is very bad news Unfortunately, GoFundMe has closed the fundraiser for me and my kids. After freezing it for several months, approximately four months, and after submitting the information required for the review process, GoFundMe closed the fundraising today. After it reached $117,000, it gained 39,000 and lost approximately $73,000.

It will never be easy to reach this mileage. It took me a lot of time, effort, and effort to be able to save money for me, my children, and my family. If you receive a refund, please re-donate through the Chuffed.org link or the PayPal link. I need your support, standing by my side again, and all hope and trust in you

@colorisbyshe @tamamita @tatzelwurming @tamarrud

@bestdressedchuuya @beserkerjewel @extremelycursedimages @ezrazone

@transastronautistic @thegreatlearning @the-arachnocommunist @thegreatphantasm @buckyclevens @bunnymoon-phase

@omegaversereloaded @punkitt-is-here @tamamita @skunkes @ot3 @valtsv @wolfertinger666 @paper-mario-wiki @nyancrimew @spongebobssquarepants @sabertoothwalrus @komsomolka @sawasawako @hotvampireadjacent @certifiedsexed @isuggestforcefem @3000s @ankle-beez @pissvortex @prisonhannibal @neechees @afro-elf @vampiricvenus @turtletoria @marxism-transgenderism @beetledrink @bevsi @feluka

Hello friends

I hope you are all well. I am grateful for your support of me and my kids and for standing by me, but there is very bad news Unfortunately, GoFundMe has closed the fundraiser for me and my kids. After freezing it for several months, approximately four months, and after submitting the information required for the review process, GoFundMe closed the fundraising today. After it reached $117,000, it gained 39,000 and lost approximately $73,000.

It will never be easy to reach this mileage. It took me a lot of time, effort, and effort to be able to save money for me, my children, and my family. If you receive a refund, please re-donate through the Chuffed.org link or the PayPal link. I need your support, standing by my side again, and all hope and trust in you

@colorisbyshe @tamamita @tatzelwurming @tamarrud

@bestdressedchuuya @beserkerjewel @extremelycursedimages @ezrazone

@transastronautistic @thegreatlearning @the-arachnocommunist @thegreatphantasm @buckyclevens @bunnymoon-phase

@omegaversereloaded @punkitt-is-here @tamamita @skunkes @ot3 @valtsv @wolfertinger666 @paper-mario-wiki @nyancrimew @spongebobssquarepants @sabertoothwalrus @komsomolka @sawasawako @hotvampireadjacent @certifiedsexed @isuggestforcefem @3000s @ankle-beez @pissvortex @prisonhannibal @neechees @afro-elf @vampiricvenus @turtletoria @marxism-transgenderism @beetledrink @bevsi @feluka

I do it too, I’m not going to pretend I don’t make jokes about the hets, or the down with cis bus, or whatever

But I recently befriended a cis, straight dude and I have watched him be dismissed, degraded, and unambiguously insulted for the perceived “crime” of being straight — all in queer environments where he is allegedly “completely welcome” and surrounded by “friends”

This guy is not a toxic person! But I have seen him be made to feel so small and like his comfort and safety in those spaces are conditional on his silence and acceptance of being treated like a human dunk zone, and I think that some of y’all have had so much shit from straight/cis people that the second you feel like you’ve got an inch, you want to luxuriate in the perceived catharsis of bullying someone who— actually —doesn’t deserve it

And until he very, very carefully mentioned to me in private that it makes him feel bad, I didn’t even clock that I was involved in doing that, that it had become so instinctive for me to make casual jokes like that, and that— well meaning or otherwise —I had been contributing to an environment that made someone I really really like feel like shit

think maybe some of y’all should

think about that too