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yo, i'm valen. i like books, music, fandom, and villains.
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aware enough to recognise i'm having a fucking insane pd episode this week but not aware enough to know why or what to do about it
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Mesmerizing!
V.E. Schwab is one of my favourite authors but one thing about her books I don't enjoy is the weight of her storytelling. Her books are heavy, not the topics, but the actual way she writes, she doesn't tell stories I can sink into to relax. They're just too dense. I didn't find this true for A Darker Shade of Magic, at all, but I did find it true the very first time I tried to read Addie LaRue, and I'm finding it again, even worse, in Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil. Which is beautiful so far but, "And Alice, Alice, under a spell, manages to free one hand long enough to swipe the key card," "And Alice—Alice is a square of chocolate melting in the sun," good fucking Lord, get to the point. What are we still doing here. This is suffocating. I will say, however: I might just dislike Alice, because there are three points of view in this book, and I love, love reading María's chapters, (she's a fantastic character so far, witty and cunning and manipulative, ugh, brilliant), but Alice makes me feel like I've had a wad of gum in my mouth too long.

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people will be like "oh aspd/npd makes people evil! it's so scary!" and then you see someone with those disorders and they're literally just a guy
trying to explain that cluster b disorders don’t make anyone inherently ‘evil’ to people on the internet.
psych2go ruined my perception of neurodivergency tbh. i used to watch them a lot when i was younger before i realized “lol these bitches are actually spreading misinformation” and so i thought npd and aspd were the “evil disorders”, “the “dark triad” was a thing, your handwriting “revealed things about your personality”, that “dark empaths” existed… jesus christ. fuck pop psychology!!
Friendly reminder that your mental illness acceptance is not true acceptance if it ends when someone has
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Factitious disorder
- Body integrity identity disorder
-Substance abuse disorder
-Antisocial personality disorder
-Schizospec disorders
You can’t pick and choose which mentally ill people are worthy of your acceptance and support. That’s just ableist.

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routine reminder that empathy ≠ morality and you don't need to have empathy to be a good person. you also don't need to "work on" empathy in order to be a good person. you can be a good person even if you never experience empathy and you are not inherently good or bad for having or not having empathy
you google "how to get help as a narcissist" and youre immediately bombarded by like 5 articles on how to spot someone with npd so you can avoid them and then a youtube video titled "how to BEAT a NARCISSIST at their own GAME" where a middle aged woman gives you a step by step guide on how to emotionally abuse an insecure person and no one sees anything wrong with that
Btw you DO put people at risk of suicide if you intentionally make people with NPD crash. You are not saving people from "abusers" you are putting vulnerable people at risk. Do not do this. "How to isolate a narcissist" "How to cut off a narcissists supply" "How to kill a narcissists ego" stuff like that is putting people who are already traumatized at a high risk.
If you’re really a “mental health advocate”, you’ll have to acknowledge people who lack empathy, people who can’t physically care about other people, people who are narcissistic and/or self serving, people who have homicidal thoughts, people who are extreme attention seekers, people who have unstable and erratic emotions, etc etc…
Mental health advocacy doesn’t stop at disorders you “just don’t like”.
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