are you man enough?

A cis women's right to comfort should not be more valued then a trans man's right for safe housing.

A cis women's right to comfort should not be more valued then a trans man's acsess to SA recovery recourses.

A queer person's right to comfort should not be more valued then a trans man's right to take space in their community.

A queer person's right to comfort should not be more valued that a trans man's acsess to queer recourses.

A queer persons right to comfort should not be move valued than a trans man's right to hrt, srs, or medical transition.

The comments on this video are absolutely fucking disgusting, a TRANS man came onto tiktok wanting to know why trans men are often excluded from queer spaces.

Clearly he is upset that he isnt invited to a lot of spaces because he passes as a cis man, of course I make the dumb mistake of opening the comments.

ALL the top comments are straight up fucking rude and disgusting towards him and trans men in general. Heres a few I wanted to share

Like im sick and tired of seeing straight/cis women claiming to be allies of the queer community WHEN THIS IS HOW THEY TREAT TRANS MEN

Like if you look at the original video this dude looks so sad that he isnt invited to any spaces or seen as queer because he 'passes' as a man and its absolutely disgusting how the women were acting in his comment section.

Transmasculine erasure (commonly called "invisibility") is not "ohh, people aren't punching me because they don't know about me. I wish they'd punch me" its having our identity, and even the crimes and suffering we face erased from history. Its the denial of life saving care because doctors and pharma companies refuse to see us, refuse to TREAT us, or demand we detransition to accesss the care.

Refer to Lucas Redbeard: who was murdered, but local news sources refused to even speak about him, only his murderers.

Refer to Robert Eads: who was turned down for treatment of ovarian cancer until it was beyond treatment.

Refer to the fact that many trans men are scared to go on prep, despite being sexually active, because drug companies refuse to test or gather data on how it affects us.

Refer to the fact that transmasculine people are disproportionately affected by scuicide; even for the queer community.

A pregnant trans man posting a video about hypocritical "allies" brings so much positive energy (/sarc) because people will see a video explicitly about pregnancy in men and the comments will

1. Assume you're talking about (perisex*) cis men.

2. Be confused.

3. Blame you for not specifying that you're talking about trans men.

Like, whyyy do you need the existence of men who can get pregnant spoonfed to you like a baby in a high chair. It's genuinely your own goddamn fault if you see a video about men who can get pregnant and you only think about the ones who can't. Like that's literally JUST critical thinking.

This isn't even getting into the comments on this video that are outright denying that trans men are men cuz there's definitely plenty of them, it's about the ones who go on to whine about how "they're not transphobic they support trans people" in the replies when people correct them.

the rates overall are absolutely abysmal (as all lgbt+ people are in such dire straights!), but i cannot help but notice how trans boys and men consistently show the highest or second highest percentages, fuck our community is such an open wound, we have got to keep loving trans men and boys with everything we’ve got, we’ve got to try and get those numbers down in any way we possibly can, where ever we possibly can.

that's transandrophobic violence and it completely destroyed and ruined my entire life, my health, my future. i almost died a few times, either by his hands or my own. all to train me to be his doting little girl-servant-wife-laborer-nurse-thing. i was punished for being masculine.

but anyone on the outside just saw a hysterical little girl, even when i became an adult. and now, now, NOW. even after surviving all that, i had to claw myself out of self-hatred for being a transneutral guy.

not because of my father, but because other trans people said pain like mine wasn't real, and i was the bad guy for even suggesting that it was.

thing i made. is this accurate