da queen of piss and bladder related kinks

1 - What do you enjoy the most about omorashi & pee desperation? 2 - What do you like to see in the aftermath of an accident? 3 - Where's the most unusual or unique place you've peed? 4 - What kink pairs best with omorashi or pee desperation for you? 5 - Do you prefer being desperate to pee, or seeing others desperate? 6 - Do you have a strong bladder or a weak bladder? Large bladder, or small bladder? 7 - What was the longest time that you’ve ever held your bladder? And did you make it to the bathroom? 8 - Have you ever made someone else wet themselves? 9 - Do you have a favorite outfit for omorashi or wetting? 10 - What drink gets you the most desperate in a short amount of time? 11 - Do you prefer when people groan from relief, or whimper from embarrassment? 12 - Do you like tiny leaks, big gushing leaks, or no leaking at all? 13 - Do you prefer more extreme desperation with a 'just made it' ending, or mild desperation with wetting? 14 - How would you feel if you got caught peeing somewhere unusual? 15 - Are there any words or phrases in omo that get you weak at the knees? 16 - Name an under-appreciated omorashi trope. 17 - Name a kink you’re on the fence about, and explain why. 18 - What’s something you fantasize about, but would hate in real life? 19 - What type of porn does the world need more of? 20 - What omo trope do you know is cliche or unrealistic, but you love anyway? 21 - What's something you only see in animated porn or fictional erotica that you wish was possible in real life? 22 - How do you feel about fear wetting? 23 - How do you feel about bed-wetting? 24 - How do you feel about bathroom schedules or needing permission to pee? 25 - Do you like watersports/golden showers? 26 - When's the last time you were desperate to pee without meaning to be? 27 - When's the last time you didn't quite make it to the toilet? 28 - Have you ever peed outside or in public? 29 - Are you shy about your bladder needs, or are you open about peeing? 30 - What is the wildest pee fantasy you ever had that actually came true? 31 - Name one pee-related turn-on and one turn-off you have. 32 - Dramatic pee dance, or denying their desperation? 33 - Jeans wetting or skirt wetting? 34 - Athletic uniform or business uniform? 35 - Naked holding or cozy casual holding? 36 - Do you pee in the shower? 37 - Do you pee in the water when you go swimming? 38 - Do you or would you pee in front of a date or partner? 39 - Would you let a date or partner help you hold in your pee? 40 - Whats your safe-word?

Urgency vs Desperation

I've been sharing a lot about Omorashi with my partner lately as I sort of delve back into holding and it has me thinking about the different between urgency and desperation, or at least how I categorize them.

Here's my best attempt to make sense of it

Urgent feelings happen earlier in the hold and keep going throughout. It's that signal to your brain to hurry hurry hurry and get somewhere to piss. It's irrational and frantic and fast paced. Urgency gets worse, and becomes more problematic later in the hold, it can be increased with the sound of water, the sight of a toilet, or even just simple words, the breeze, anything.

-I also think urgency causes more leaks.-

Meanwhile, I use Desperation as a marker for physical need. Desperation is the constant state of struggle during a hold. For me, about a liter in and I can guarantee I'm going to be Desperate. It may not be very urgent, but I can feel the fullness in a way where I know I really really need to pee. Desperation gets worse too, obviously 😈, it makes you feel more like you can't walk or breath or stand fully upright. Desperation makes you feel totally paralyzed and brings tears to your eyes.

When added to higher urgency, they're as much at war as they are one in the same.

I love high desperation and low urgency holds the most because I can feel absolutely laden and like my bladder weighs a ton and still be able to do tasks that press and torment it and then raise the urgency with water or sound or walking into the bathroom and just feel the pressure mounting until I feel absolutely heady with it all.... But I'm wondering about other people and what y'all prefer?