It's Not Fair

Interracial Kissing

I mean fantasies are one thing it exists in very extreme ways but most of us switch that off in real life

What you feel really as a white person yourself

I think white guys can have a tendency to confuse self-confidence and assertiveness in Black men with arrogance, offensiveness, and racism. White guys are so used to having things their way that they react with confusion and anger when a Black man shows up and demands something the white guys thought they had to themselves.

I'm happy to hear that my reading my blog has helped you come to terms with your sexuality.

The way I see it, the world is changing and the traditional role of the white man is disappearing. This can be difficult to accept, especially if you're a white male. Which is why we see so many guys lash out against progress, desperately trying to keep things the way they were.

White guys need help finding their role in the new world. They need help telling the story in a way where they also fit in.

White guys need to understand that they are no longer in charge. Their natural access to education, high-paying jobs and, yes, women is going away. And that's a good thing.

You are no longer the hero who gets the girl. You are the sidekick, helping where you can and delivering the occasional comic relief. The sooner you realize that, the better.

And if sitting alone at night with your pants around your ankles, furiously pumping away at explicit interracial material helps you come to this conclusion, then all power to you.