“You have never clarified, Derek,” one of his Shabbat friends wrote to him. “You’ve never said, ‘Hey all, this is what I do believe and this is what I don’t.’ It’s not the job of someone who’s potentially scared/intimidated by someone else to approach that person to see if they are in fact scary/intimidating.”
The white flight of Derek Black - The Washington Post
Really? This is a remarkable story, but this one paragraph - wow. It may not be the job of the scared and intimidated person to approach the person they’re scared of/intimidated by, if they’re really scared/intimidated - but surely it’s on them to explore why they feel that way, and whether their feelings might be baseless??












