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SX6s fear not being seen as strong or desirable, so to compensate for their self-doubt they exaggerate their strength and/or beauty. They're the most counterphobic E6 subtype, going against fear with aggression. They act intimidating and aggressive, believing that appearing threatening will make people believe in their strength and desirability. They bark but rarely bite, as their intimidation is a tactic to not appear weak, not so much a way to actually hurt others.

SP6s see others as a threat, so to avoid this fear they act warm and submissive. They ally themselves with others to ensure that they won't be lashed out at, doing everything they can to appear likable. They desire warm and affectionate treatment from others, so they repress aggression, believing that they must always be good. They fear loneliness and dealing with the harshness of life on their own. Their strategy to avoid this is by relying on others for warmth and protection. They also see everything in shades of gray to avoid conflict with others.

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SX5s want complete union with another person. They idealize romance and because of this they hold their partner to high standards, wanting the relationship to be the perfect one they envisioned in their head. They’re highly withdrawn and distrustful, and long for somebody they can fully trust and feel safe with. They avoid social interaction for fear of being hurt, but when they finally let their guard down, they exhibit a more vivacious side. They expect their partner to let their guard down just as much, due to their intense need for trust.

SP5s want to shield themselves from the world. They feel overwhelmed by the demands of life and other people, and due to this they retreat and hide, watching the world from the sidelines. They need a refuge to feel safe in. They're prone to hoarding, fearing a lack of resources. Despite this anxiety around survival, they try to get by on very little, denying their needs because they feel this is what gives them autonomy. They also place great emphasis on conserving their energy. They're obliging to the requests of others, not wanting to expend energy on conflict, but they're secretly resentful, often feeling used and abused.

SX4s are the most blatantly envious of the E4 subtypes. They compete with others to gain approval, even going so far as to make others suffer. They believe this will expel their feelings of deficiency. Despite their intense sense of lack, they act arrogant and aggressive, trying to cover up how inferior they feel. They feel like the world is against them and that they must fight to reclaim what it takes from them.

SP4s swallow their envy and often aren't even aware that they have envy. They see suffering and endurance as the key to being loved and recognized, which gives them masochistic tendencies. They're extremely stoic and believe that they must always keep their emotions private. They're the most self-sacrificing of the E4 subtypes. They fear a lack of resources and they rashly go after what they feel they need for survival. They're prone to risky behavior due to this.

SX3s rigidly conform to gender roles to be seen as an object of desire. They feel a deep need to be validated by a significant other and to achieve this they cultivate their image, working hard to appear desirable both physically and behaviorally. When they're in a relationship, they strive to be the perfect partner, believing that this will calm their insecurities. This results in them overindulging their partner and not prioritizing their own success and independence. They lack a solid identity, since they place so much emphasis on being desired. They continuously repress their own needs, focusing only on their partner.

SP3s prioritize an image of efficiency and productivity. They don't want to appear vain. Rather, they want to be seen as reliable, hard-working, and helpful. They crave security, money, and a stable position in the world, which often results in them being workaholics. They tend to identify themselves through their roles and performances. Being seen as a good and supportive person is a guarantee to them that they won't lose the people they're dependent on for validation.

SX2s want to be desired romantically and their pride manifests in being irresistible to others. They desire a stable, loving bond with somebody more than anything and to achieve this they indulge and flatter their romantic interest. They often take pride in the amount of romantic conquests they've made. They draw people in through charm and generosity. They're extremely impulsive and histrionic, which can pave the way for turbulent relationships. They believe their worth is dictated by how desired they are by others.

SP2s fear not being cared for, so to secure love and care they use childlike charm to seduce others into taking care of them. Their seduction is more innocent and sweet than it is in the other E2 subtypes. They care for and dote on others, hoping that this will lead to them being cared for and doted on in return. They have an often unconscious belief that they're the most important thing and thus wish for others to cater to them. They fear growing up and thus their give to get strategy largely revolves around ensuring that they won't have to show up in the world and take care of themselves.

SO1s want their environment and the people in it to conform to their ideals of perfection. They often take on a teacher role with others, trying to reinforce their ideas of “proper” behavior. They're the coldest and most intellectual of the E1 subtypes, often seeming unapproachable and distant. They're highly inadaptable, believing that they're superior and therefore don't have to follow along with mainstream social customs. Their anger manifests in coldness and rigidity, and it tends to leak out when others won't follow along with their ideals.

SX1s want to reform others, especially their romantic partners. They hold themselves and others to often impossibly high standards. They're highly jealous, believing that somebody more perfect will steal their partner, and therefore they're extremely controlling and paranoid in relationships. They're the E1 subtype where anger is the most openly expressed and are known to be quite aggressive people. They idealize intimacy and romance and experience anger when these ideals aren't met.