The Tainted Scripture

Actually no, I do. I am a proud MAP and actively want to be one. The fact that I love myself is not a danger to anyone.

This goes for all my other paras too.

I am a proud zoophile and that does not make me danger.

I am a proud necrophile and that does not make me a danger.

I am a proud biastophile and that does not make me a danger.

I am a proud hybristophile and that does not make me a danger.

I am a proud erotophonophile and that does not make me a danger.

I am a proud sadist and that does not make me a danger.

tl;dr:

❌ kill your local pedo

"Kill your local pedophile" and your local pedophile is a 12-year-old girl who doesn't know why she feels the way she feels about girls much younger than her

-@transidlanza

No,I don't think they're right. Your identity is your own and you get to decide how others address you. If you want to stay source connected and be addressed as your source, then that is up to you, not anyone else.

Even if they were right, it's not up to them. It can be dangerous to "reality check" someone and not everyone wants a reality check. They shouldn't have responded the way that they did. You aren't in the wrong here, darling <3

but reality checking without permission is SUPER HARMFUL.

not only can it be super uncomfortable, but it can actually make the delusions way worse!

there's a reason that like. when someone is in delusions, you "let it be" instead of reality checking (unless you have permission).

also, what they did technically doesn't even fall under reality checking! reality checking, properly, is offering contradicting evidence or actively challenging the delusion to bring the person back to reality. its more along the lines of "what's the evidence for that?" not "Oh, snap out of it, that's not real"

this person was just a jerk to you, anon.

At no point during either one of these conversations did I say I wanted Monika to be called out about this. I specifically remember telling one of them that I did not want to make a callout post. So please do not go into my inbox asking me to make a post sharing "my side" of the story or asking for proof that this happened. I won't be responding to the ones I've already gotten. He's admitted it's happened. We have both spoken about the incident since then, and I am not telling anyone else that he may have hurt to, but I have forgiven him. I believe in change, and I'd like to move on from this.

To addess something else, I have not been involved in any of the harrasment or doxing of Monika, and I don't support those who are actively engaging in it. I am 100% anti harrasment, and I will always be anti harrasment. This has gone beyond "spreading awareness" and is now a lot of you are just using this to be mapmisic, bigoted, and just spew rude shit in general. Telling someone to kill themselves will not fix anything at all. People have a right to be upset and uncomfortable with everything Monika has done, especially me and every other person he has directly harmed, but to dox someone and say they deserve to die?

This goes to anyone harrasing victims as well. Someone will publish a 10-page document full of proof and evidence on what happened to them, and they will still be spoken to as if they're lying or attention seeking. To be against callout posts is one thing, but some of you act like the worst thing a victim can do is bring light to what their abuser did to them.

And one last thing- this community has a huge issue with acting like abuse allegations, and non-consensual harm is simply drama or discourse. This was a serious situation that greatly triggered me, and now it has been minimized to "online drama." I can not even log into this app without seeing myself being mentioned as "Monika's victim" or "the minor he threatened to leak."

This has nothing to do with any posts other's have made in regards to Monika's treatment of them, but how triggering its been to see posts made about my situation.

I'm only speaking on my behalf and processing of this situation. I'm not speaking for anyone else who was impacted

This community has a HORRIBLE habit of outing people's trauma when they didn't consent to it and that SERIOUSLY needs to stop. Outing people's trauma without consent is DANGEROUS.

Victims and survivors also deserve spaces where they can talk about what happened to them without worry or fear.

babi-god, I really hope you can find happiness, whether its within this community or not. I wish you everything you want and need in life.

Who are called "that guy" from people overhearing them, "sir" on the phone and don't want to change themselves.

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(speaking from experience as a victim of a victim supported by a support all victims type)

its the tunnel vision, victim=good and perpetrator=bad is yet another shit binary that leaves so many things out and makes it really easy to miss when that change happens

"lets break down social norms!" "no not like that!!!"

“transage is evil and prey they on children!!!!” me and every other permachild:

this post was created because I believe in live and let live and find it supremely annoying when fake youthlib anti-cs devalue opinions of minors and threaten to report people. If someone thinks they can't consent or is personally anti-c, that's none of my business, but I can't understand someone else's experiences better than they do, and neither can you.

Due to the idea that it's safer to have our parents consent for us, multiple times it was "consented" for me to be fully stripped and inspected as someone going into an inpatient facility literally for sexual trauma. I had no fucking say, I could not say no. Legally, we cannot say no, why do people genuinely think us NOT BEING ALLOWED TO SAY NO protects us ?

And not only that, parents can revoke consent to life saving procedures, can force you to do events/etc no matter if it's something you can't handle, no matter if they're literally just doing it to force you to be a certain way. Parents are the ones that sign the consent forms for everything, we get No Say. Parents can legally force you to be in a religion you aren't a part of, parents can legally force you to do most anything.

What is up with there being seemingly zero lesbian/sapphic paras? Where are my lesbian M4Ps and AAMs? Sapphic necros? Lesbian z00s? Biastos? Somnos? Where are my lesbian paras? Where's my community? 😭🥺💔