what’s the big deal about being avoidant. like ohhhh im dodging the bullet quick everyone lets mock the bullet dodger
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what’s the big deal about being avoidant. like ohhhh im dodging the bullet quick everyone lets mock the bullet dodger

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Current therapist has suggested that I resist compliments, which is not a thing I thought of myself as doing. Now trying to ponder whether this is true in like a “too hard on myself” way or more just in like a… socially awkward pedantic way?
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“If anyone has a reason that these two should not be wed, speak now or forever hold your peace.” Five different people burst into the chapel from different entrances, each with a different objection.
“Stop! You can’t marry her! She cheated on you with Brian.”
“She did not ‘cheat on me’ because we discussed it beforehand. We both agreed on an open relationship, which is why you can sit down too Aunt Betty she already knows about Miami. She knew about it before I went. Does that cover everybody?”
Another voice cried out from the other side of the room. “Get away from him Sally. That man is a dangerous criminal! I bet he didn’t tell you about–”
“Yes, he told me all about that incident, and I understand his circumstances. I’m fairly shocked that you’d think otherwise. We’ve been together for 14 months, do you really think he waited that long to tell me? And how about you Rob, are you also here to tell me about some dark secret you think my fiance and I failed to tell each other for more than a year?” Slowly, Robert sat down in the back, next to Aunt Betty.
“Does anyone here have an objection to this wedding that is not premised on the assumption that Sally and I have been lying to each other for over a year?”
There was silence for a few moments, before the fifth late arrival spoke up from the back. “That man isn’t really a priest.”
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…you mean a fan?
A fan is designed to blow in one direction; a circulator is designed to create a current that circles a room.
The best use for a fan is to pull air out of a room, causing fresh air to enter, creating a temperature gradient where it's hottest near the fan and coolest near the door.
The best use for a circulator is near a heat/cool/scent source so that the temperature or scent fills the room.
I hope that explains from a home use perspective.
(I'm used to distinguishing them in a repair perspective; you want a fan to ventilate a room you are painting, but a circulator to dry the paint or assist a dehumidifier in drying water damaged furniture)
…I have learned!
Okay so what's the functional difference? They're both short tubes that suck air in one end and blow it out the other, right?
The fan blows in a straight cylindar of air the shoots very tightly in the pointed direction, so you can point a fan at a window and 'shoot' the hot air out.
The circulator is more of a funnel shape that causes the air to bloom out in a funnel pattern that fills a room. It won't ventilate nearly as well.
So, circulators move the same air around and around in a softer, draftier way. Fans pull air from one place to another in a strong linear wind, so fresh air is drawn in.
I hope that explains better, but let me know if you have more questions.
Thank you!
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Daughter: You realize this puts you in the top 1% of the top 1%, right? The elite of the elite! That's extremely good.
Father: *glaring at his brand new "#272993 Dad" mug* I still don't like it.
Father's Co-Worker: *drinking out of a "#5122653 Dad" mug* How was Father's Day?
Father: *feeling smug* Pretty great, actually.
~ The Mentor: A Little Book for the Guidance of Such Men and Boys as would Appear to Advantage in the Society of Persons of the Better Sort, by Alfred Ayres, 1884
i think it's funny that 'perverse' is now so closely associated with sex stuff this excerpt becomes slightly challenging to parse.
also contemplating if the same euphemism creep wound up up expanding to the point where 'contrarian' was a synonym for 'pervert.' not a good outcome, but very funny.
"rocky would hate stratt because she hurt his bestie" plausible, even likely. "rocky wouldn't hate stratt because he understands the stakes of needing to save the actual world" nuanced, intellectually stimulating. "stratt would hate rocky because her ex wife whom she killed is happier with him" intriguing, avant-garde.
#7 billion fucking people on earth weren't enough but you'll die for the alien. sure. no yeah. sure.
having a headache while hydrated is so unfair. you were supposed to protect me.
Waking up from a nap and still having a headache is so unfair. You were supposed to save me.
#let me be for real for a moment some of the reasons kanji have so many readings are #they entered the Japanese language as loanwords multiple times at different times of history #so different Chinese pronunciations = different kanji reading #as Chinese pronunciation changed plus a lot of loanwoards entered Japanese as specialised language #some of the readings are kind of euphonic changes depending on what the kanji is attached to (sh sounds vs j sounds vs z sounds a big one) #and some are the old Japanese word that was attached to a kanji with the same meaning = nama #which is also why there are so many homophones since Chinese is a tonal language and Japanese isn't @pudentilla
OHHHH IT'S ONYOMI VS KUNYOMI TIME!! Okay sorry for the caps but this is a subject I actually think is really cool.
So the official term for this, when a kanji is read one way in some contexts and a different way in others, is usually a case of onyomi vs kunyomi. -yomi, "reading" (from yomu "to read") basically categorizes words into whether you read them with the chinese pronunciation or the japanese pronunciation.
There are a lot of complicated factors that go into this but the easiest way for english speakers to wrap their heads around it is that the Japanese language ended up with multiple sets of vocabulary in the same way that the English language did with the Germanic language/Romance language split; you have one set of vocabulary for common, everyday use that derives from germanic vocab, and then another set of vocabulary for fancy, formal use that derives from Latinate vocab. The classic example is using swine to describe the animal, which the Germanic-speaking Anglo-Saxon farmers and handlers would tend to, and porc to describe the meat, which the French-speaking Normans would eat. But pretty much every word in the English language has some degree of casual-formal duplication of this kind.
Much like European scholars did with Latin, a bunch of vocabulary got imported by the literati of Japan starting around about the 5th century in order to have a different and more formal register to talk about certain topics. This was imported alongside the Chinese writing system at the same time, which then over the next few centuries was shifted into a simpler, non-logographic, syllabic script that became hiragana (the wavy one.)
But that means that a bunch of imported Chinese vocabulary was conventionally written in their original-or-close-to-it hanzi form, and spoken with their original-or-close-to-it Chinese pronunciation. Words of this type have a much higher incidence of long vowels, left over from the Chinese where each character would represent a single complex syllable varied by vowel intonation, compared to native Japanese words which are polysyllabic and hit more consonants.
So, the system has evolved in various directions over time, and now there are a lot of ways that a single character can be read depending on positioning and context, but the broad strokes are: if the kanji is mostly on its own, surrounded by hiragana, it will take the Japanese reading (kunyomi) and if it's part of a compound word, paired with other kanji, it will take the Chinese reading (onyomi.) The more formal the text -- especially notable with medical, scientific, or governmental texts -- the more dense and compacted it will get, with a much higher ratio of kanji compounds to hiragana, and a correspondingly higher dose of onyomi readings.
To leave off with one example: the video above highlights (手), which is 'hand.' When it appears by itself surrounded by simple words like participles, it takes the kunyomi te, like in the sentence 'take my hand' (手を握って, te o nigitte.) But if you are using it as part of a more abstraction concept, like in 手動 -- done by hand, or manual, see how the english term underwent the exact same shift into latinate when it gains a level of abstraction? -- then it becomes part of a compound word with another kanji. Now it takes the onyomi shu, to become part of the compound word shudou. Catch that long vowel! If it weren't part of a compound word, that 動 by itself would take the kunyomi hataraki, for motion or action.
Anyway, onyomi and kunyomi, fun!
Some more examples in English:
'Troupe', 'troop', and 'thorp'. Loaned from French twice, as well as the homegrown term for a small village/group of houses.
'Pack', and 'bailey'. Native word and French loan.
"Sir', 'sire', 'seigneur' and 'Monsieur'. All from French at slightly different times and in different contexts.
Same with 'dame', 'dam', 'madam', and 'ma'am'.
'Mister', 'master', 'magister' and 'maître d'. All from Latin and French.
To 'spout' and 'spit'. First is from Dutch, second is native English.
To 'wake', 'watch' and 'wait'. First two are native English, third is from French.
To 'ward' versus 'guard'. Same word, but the second one was borrowed into Latin and then back into English from French.
In English the connections are disguised by using different characters for each word, but it's the same process!
i'm a big fan of how the adjectives 'chivalrous' and 'cavalier' are roughly opposite descriptors of a person's attitude and manners but are literally the same word ('rides a horse') borrowed in twice separately, and evolved along different routes.
('cavalier' achieved its negative connotation largely by getting attached to a specific political faction in a time of civil war, while 'chivalrous' was associated with poetry about idealized, hypothetical knights.)

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