Here to help.

It’s okay.  I know it’s new to you and that why I asked what I did before and even now.  Although I admittedly didn’t think about how this might affect you.  I’m sorry.  

Meaning we… as in the three of us?  I can understand what you’re saying Sir. But are you with Sam?  Do you think that?  Does he know that?  I don’t know if it would make a different but it might.

Wait… what?  No… hey, stop that Mr. Warner.  You’re not old.  This is just new and admittedly complicated.  Okay, so in this scenario, I get the best of both worlds.  Because with you and with Sam, I get an amazing Dom boyfriend like person, you know because we’ve really never talked about that, but you are definitely in my eyes anyway, my Dom.  And I get a wonderful Switch boyfriend that I mostly Dominate.  But Sam is a Switch and I don’t anticipate him dominating you and I’ve taken a more definite dominate role in our relationship so I can understand if he wants to see someone else, someone that he can dominate and that maybe it’s hard for that person to be me, even if he’d see more submissively with you.  Does that make sense?   I mean if the situations were reversed and Sam was the more dominant right now, and you were both dominating me, I don’t know that I might not want to dominate someone, possibly someone else, from time to time.  It doesn’t take from how I feel about Sam or you Sir… it’s just a biology thing.

First dates are exciting.  I think there were just as many butterflies in my stomach as at the exhibit that day.  Do you need something from me Sir?

I don’t think Sam and I are together, but I did think we were ... sort of going to talk about seeing if that could be a possibility. I get that we’re not there yet but...well, that’s the end goal, right? Ideally, all three of us would mean something to each other and all three of us would be in a relationship. At least, that’s where my mind took the thought of all this.

When you put it like that it sounds more innocuous. I can wrap my mind around it that way. But, Sam wouldn’t just be looking for someone to Dominate, would he? He’d be...looking for...romantic potential, in a date, I’m assuming. So then what happens if Sam wants to collar someone else? That person is then...I don’t know. A part of our lives. We split our lives and our time with Sam and this other person. We make room for that other person out of necessity because Sam has made room in his for them. Does that make sense?

I feel like a stick in the mud for thinking of it this way at all. But, usually, I tend to think of what’s mine as mine. As caveman as that sounds. And to answer your question, yeah, I like that you consider me your Dom -- and I consider myself that too.