一期一会

1) This single minor inconvenience is interfering with my Masterplan and I’m not emotionally equipped to handle it

This question should be answered by you. Why are you even reading Jung in the first place? What is your original intention, purpose, or goal? That should be what guides you.

Becoming aware of your darkness and developing a deeper understanding of it allows you to address it in the right way, so that you can truly grow as a person. Have you ever heard the serenity prayer? It goes something like this:

Art of “ Filip Canik ”

“Wanting to be...” any tritype shows the person who wants to be that does not fully understand the nature of the Enneagram. It’s not a source of pride to admit your tritype, but a public confession of the ways you are “screwed up.” It’s a facing of a version of yourself that you would rather not think about, because it exposes all your raw, gaping wounds and “issues” to the world.

Glamorizing any tritype is a mistake, because they all suck. It doesn’t mean there aren’t good things about them too, but each number’s coping mechanism is a lie they tell themselves that keeps them trapped inside a box and forces them into self-harming behaviors.

If you are a specific tritype, and are willing to look at what that really says about you and how it has hurt you in the past, then you know the pain of being one. People who glamorize certain types either are not that type or have not yet discovered their self-sabotage.

I mean, what is so glamorous about...

1: having such a moral stick up your butt, you become intolerable?

2: giving people attention because you want it yourself (manipulation)?

3: being so desperate for attention and approval, you live a fake life?

4: living a never-ending cycle of envy toward others that brings out a hateful disdain in your interactions with them, thus separating you from them?

5: being so cripplingly afraid of the world and your own possible incompetence in it, you never put yourself out there?

6: being so insecure about your own mental process, you have to let outside sources think for you?

7: being so afraid of pain, you become shallow and irresponsible?

8: being so determined not to get taken advantage of, you trample all over your relationships and often destroy them?

9: being a doormat for people to use and abuse?

Fi anywhere feels a strong compulsion to live according to its subjective moral principles and personal standards and it does not want to alter or abandon these things, because to do so would be against their ‘nature.’ What these standards are and how comfortable the person is ‘altering’ them depends on the Fi user.

Fi-dom: desires to live a life according to their own personal ethics, free of outside influences and any attempt to force them to conformity; has strong ethical views but a hands-off approach to other people, with no desire to change them in any way (because they do not wish others to change them). Highly sensitive.

Fi-aux: desires to live a life according to their own personal ethics, but also in exploration (their dominant function) either in a sensory or abstract realm, embracing outside influences while resisting conformity; has strong ethical views and a more hands-on approach to influencing others to fulfill their greater potential (will guide, advise, lead, but not impose on). Sensitive.

Fi-tert: desires to live a life according to their own personal ethics, which often include a strong respect for work ethic and a need to be productive (influence of higher Te) and pursue those passions their fascinations dictate (their dominant functional influence leading to ‘personal obsessions’); will compromise for realistic reasons, but not violate their ethical standards. More object / work-focused than people-focused, thus more inclined to what ‘should’ be done than on enforced improvement. Less sensitive.

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