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- don’t settle. ever. whether it’s people or things. know your worth.

- don’t be catty or messy. focus on yourself. getting into fights and having beef with other women/people is really tacky.

- being a bad bitch doesn’t mean you’re mean. keep it cute and be polite and respectful, even to those you don’t necessarily don’t care for. being rude is corny.

- pamper yourself always. keep yourself up, look good for your own damn self.

- don’t let anybody waste your time bc it’s precious and contrary to what you may think, you don’t have much of it. 

- YOU are your best support system. take care of yourself. be your #1 supporter.

- as a woman, you are often told to see other women as competition. stop thinking that way. look at the beauty in other women, and soon you will start to see beauty in yourself. build healthy relationships with women. sisterhood is so important.

- do not prioritize a man over everything else. a man is not your world. he just lives in it.

- success is the best revenge. 

- don’t catch feelings for just anybody. your love and care is sacred,and for you to take it there with somebody, they gotta earn that shit. don’t fuck with anybody who doesn’t respect you and see your worth. stop fucking around with bum ass people that don’t give af about you.

- don’t let ANYBODY disrespect you. don’t take shit from anybody.

- don’t let anybody play you like you’re stupid. trust your gut, if you feel like you’re getting played, trust your instinct.