The Art And Fandom Blog

Shen Yuan is actually a great cautionary tale abt underestimating the effect your presence has on the ones you care about. You are fucking important. Your good actions matter, and won’t be completely erased by one bad deed. Your life matters. People care about you. They won’t stop caring about you just bc you think they would be justified to. Communicate. Do not kys right in front of your favourite person out of a misguided attempt to cheer them up with your death you fucking idiot I swear to Airplane.

I LOVE YOU OLD/ADULT TRANS PEOPLE!!! MAY ALL TRANSGENDER AND GENDER QUEER PEOPLE GET TO SEE OLD AGE, GREY HAIR AND JOY !!

The day I started testosterone, my wife found him on Tiktok. He was starting the same day I did. I felt like I was holding hands with him, going on this journey together. Seeing him again, happy with himself, loving himself, flourishing even though he had to wait so long, fills me with incredible joy and pride. It's never too late to be yourself. <3

Today’s Friday, though.

The only way forward is to stop treating masculinity as synonymous with harmful, monstrous, or dangerous.

There is a fundamental difference between "men are dangerous" (wrong, bioessentialist) and "the patriarchy allows dangerous men to exist unchecked" (true).