I'd Have Been Good To You Babe

Dragged by a 5 year old.

i pay attention to shit you wouldn’t even think i’m paying attention too.

find someone who doesn’t have to leave to realize they should’ve stayed

make sure that you take care of yourself

I’m 100% sure your friends aren’t supposed to make you feel shitty 

When your hair is wavy/curly sometimes there is a fine line between “messy romantic waves” and “evil witch who lives in the woods.”

When your hair is fine and straight there’s a fine line between “sleek and elegant” and “weasel dipped in grease”

When you’re hair is thick there’s a fine line between “gorgeous vibrant bounce” and “holy fuck it’s Hagrid”

I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person that you are in a relationship with but now I think it is more important to be similar in other aspects. like how kind you are. how you treat the people you care about, how you treat strangers. how you deal with anger. how you deal with pain. and not necessarily dealing with all these things the same way but being perseptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. it’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. it’s important to me to have that kind of synchrony.

i think we start healing by telling the truth