Positive Masculinity:)

He really sees me as an actual guy

He treats me like an actual guy

Doesn't act like I'm any different than he is just because I was born a woman and I wanna cry

Genuinely one of the best friends I've ever had

He doesn't question me for being trans, always uses my correct pronouns and the terms I like to use, uses my preferred name

Doesn't get upset with me when I change my preferred name for the millionth time (he kinda jokingly says "Again 😒" but really doesn't mind and does his best to get accustomed to the new name)

Hey, least this time I changed back to one of my old names and it's definitely one of the ones I've been happiest with

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✊🏾Black men deserve respect.

✊🏿Black men deserve to feel safe.

✊🏽Black men deserve to grow.

✊🏾Black men deserve to thrive.

✊🏿Black men deserve to love.

✊🏽Black men deserve to be themselves.

Actions do not have gender.

The masculinity/femininity venn diagram is very close to a circle. Enough confidence and genderfuckery can make it a circle actually. A guy could be doing something masculinely and I could be doing it femininely and our nonbinary friend could be doing it like "the concept of a rainforest ecosystem", but we're all doing the exact same thing.

Actions don't have gender, just like clothes don't have gender. Just like haircuts, hobbies, voices, body types, etc etc etc. the reason people think they do is, as usual, rooted in the white cisheteropatriarchy.