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Intro post:

Hi! My name is Charlie, and I have a body. A body people don't expect me to have, from scars to multiple bone issues I have many things that people would consider 'wrong', if asked I am willing to answer but for now I don't have the spoons to elaborate. This blog is mainly to elevate about other people's experiences with it, venting is allowed and encouraged. No matter how minor or major, your body is not wrong or bad.

I reject the idea that my body is disfigured or deformed. My body is my vessel and I am learning to love it, even with the difficulties and expectations of others.

Rules to be added below, cw for uses of the full words:

#disability #physical disability #disabled #crip punk #cripple punk

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Good thing! I explained to my physical therapist that I couldn’t stand for long because of my bad leg, and she understood! She didn’t insist at all, and she even looked up my specific condition to better understand it!

This is acceptance !

#this is acceptance

when i tell my pe teacher im sorry i cant properly swim on my back or can't for too long times play badminton he says oh just do

and i don't get any point difference to others

(i got scoliosis, and my shoulder is twisted forwards a bit and also my back is just crooked, so i can't twist my arm properly for swimming on my back, and my badminton ball always go to the left because of that as well)

This is formimisia.

#this is formimisia #bone differences #this is ableism #scoliosis is a disability

Once again I’m so glad this blog exists. Thank you so much.

No problem! Blog has been kinda dead as submissions haven't been coming in but I will keep it up and any and all future asks will be posted!

#disappeared from tumblr for a few days but im back :3 sorry for missing ur ask

My ribcage is "misshapen" , I can feel it and see it. My sternum is pressed in and I have a bit of lower back scoliosis, which all means that the bottom of my ribs twist around and create bumps above my stomach in a way that I haven't seen on other people.

I was told by my peers when I was young that I was so beautiful and would look great in a bikini because I was so skinny. (I was also unhealthily skinny but didn't know) But even after gaining weight and having a wonderful stomach and rolls my ribs still protrude.

This doesn't bother me, I love my body!!!

But I do want to know what's going on with my ribs in case it's related to other stuff I have, but nobody believes me right when I say bras never fit properly because of it and I've been able to put my fingers up under the "misshapen" ribs. They all act shocked and just dismissive.

I would love just to be x-rayed and have access to the images so I can see what my own body looks like! But they won't do an "unnecessary" X-ray but I want to know about my own body!!!

This is formimisia, you deserve answers about your own body and to not be fetishized by peers.

#this is formimisia #bone differences #this is ableism

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formimisia and figurmisia are when people think theyre entitled to your life story.

This is formimisia and figurmisia. And ableism in general.

#this is formimisia #this is figurmisia #this is ableism

an adaption of a 2D cartoon into 3D CGI got rid of one of a character's kyphosis for "ease of movement"

This is formimisia. Erasing a characters disability for 'ease of movement' is a lazy and ableist choice.

#this is formimisia #bone differences #kyphosis

Formisia is people pointing out and making a big deal of when my eye drifts off (strabismus), even when it means interrupting me. Oftentimes, it's done with a lot of laughter and "sorry, I couldn't help it, it just caught me off guard because it's so odd!!!"

This is formimisia. Strabismus is not odd or strange and I'm tired of people treating it the way they do.

#this is formimisia #strabismus

(Thx for answering :])

Formisia is me wanting to play basketball but not being able to because it's a Tall Person sport - thus all the hoops are way too high - and I'm 4'10 thus giving me a massive disadvantage... and all the shorter hoops are plastic kids toys....

I mean I still wouldn't be able to play anyway because of chronic pain but... still sucks to know I have TWO barriers of entry and one could just be solved if they just had a version with lower hoops

I also struggle with other sports like volleyball because of how high you need to jump/reach for blocking and such, which again I'm too short for

This is formimisia and ableism. Anyone should be allowed to play the sports they want to, but its often gatekept to certain body types and abilities.

#this is formimisia #this is ableism

To preface this; I was born with something wrong with my stomach. IDK the name but it's extremely rare and I'm lucky the scar is as small as it is. I love the scar ! It means I survived something bad. But people are horrified by a deep scar on my stomach. People ask if it was self-harm, children stare when I (for example) wear crop tops or go to the pool in a swimsuit. It's just a part of my body. It's always been there. It will always be there. Why are people so upset about my body having a scar ?

This is figurmisia. First off scars are normal and secondly its weird to ask someone about their scars or assume they're self harm.

#this is figurmisia #scars

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Is it formimisia for doctors to always point out my scars in their assessments even when it's not relevant? Like, I'll have an appointment to check on my thyroid and in the summary there is nearly always a section noting I have scars.

This is potentially figurmisia. Scars are unrelated to most treatment plans, but doctors do tend to take note of things unrelated to what they're treating for a couple of reasons. Quick mental health checks, physical checks, and any changes to your body are taken note of for future appointments or new doctors. I do know how it feels off though, doctors can be quite ableist.

#this is figurmisia #scars

What exactly counts for this blog? I'm 4'10.5 (like... 0.5 above the limit to be considered having dwarfism) but wasn't sure if 'unusually short stature' counted for what you're going for here ^^;

This would be formimisia, a lot of formimisia can identify as figurmisia though.

#this is formimisia #this is figurmisia #bone differences #dwarfism

My knee caps regularly subluxate, which is obviously painful, but it is very much made worse by the fact people make faces at me, even people that know I have knee problems. I've had a doctor watch it happen and make a face at it. Like yeah, thanks, glad to know you find my body disturbing and disgusting 👍 thanks for letting me know, especially when I'm in pain and can't move. Really helpful.

This is formimisia. Disgust towards someone's body just because its different is terrible.

#this is formimisia #bone differences

Formimisia, ableism, and intersexism is people insisting that I have to be "fixed" for my external intersex traits because they "aren't normal", despite them not causing me any medical issues

This is formimisia, ableism, and intersexism. Forced IGM is medical abuse.

#this is formimisia #intersex

i don't know what this is, but having scoliosis and being trans, being told by my father to not disfigure myself more -_-

(aka get top surgery)

This is figurmisia, formimisia, and transphobia.

#this is figurmisia #this is formimisia #cw d word #bone differences

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Formimisia is when people make a huge deal and get disgusted over my joints moving farther than they should

-👁️🎨

This is formimisia.

#this is formimisia #joint issues

Asking for trigger warnings on healed scars is figurmisa (sorry if I didn’t spell the word right)

-👁️🎨

This is figurmisia.

#this is figurmisia #scars

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