to all the 13 year old girls that follow me
if you think her skirt is cute, tell her
the guy that you have a crush on probably doesn’t take enough showers
liking 1D or taylor swift isn’t embarrassing. dont hide it
draw draw draw! you’ll be happy to have the skill later on
do your homework it’ll help with stress
when you’re overwhelmed you should run. it makes you feel better
don’t start cutting no matter how afraid you are
if that shirt doesn’t fit you it doesn’t matter
hug the people you love
know that your life is weird right now and it will get better
reblogging because I wish someone told me this when I was 13
- don’t talk shit about people - if you wanna experiment with your hair/makeup go for it, find what suits you. - if you start to feel sad alot, tell your parents/friends talk about it - be the best you can be - learn to love yourself
-don’t be embarrassed of anything you like. -clothes from Hollister and Abercrombie and Fitch only fit a certain type of body. Don’t let their narrow-mindedness make you cry in the dressing room -don’t starve yourself. Please don’t. -there’s a reason you don’t look like people in magazines and on TV. You look like you and that’s wonderful.
-Be yourself, no matter what other people say -Don’t start smoking or drinking alcohol, IT’S NOT COOL -Don’t waste time on judging others
Thats not only for the 13 years old!
- don’t stay friends with someone who makes you feel shitty inside
- don’t be afraid to be friends with people in different grades
- your worth is not defined by what you can afford
- do what you love as often as you can, because that’s how you get better
- forgive yourself
-drink milk for strong bones
-you might end up liking girls and that’s okay
-you might not end up being a girl and that’s okay too
-drink a lot of water
-don’t stop yourself from doing things you love just bc they are too “masculine” or “feminine”
-Wash your face before going to bed
-just because someone’s older, it doesn’t mean they have the right to treat you like garbage
-speak up, it’s ok if you do.
-pay attention and love the little things because it’s too easy to get caught up with life and forget
-take deep breaths and slow down
-you are doing your best and that’s enough
-similar to how you shouldn’t compare yourself to people you see on tv or in magazines, don’t compare yourself to people you see on social media
-try your best to stay in the moment. Stop constantly worrying about the future or thinking about the past.
-if there’s a skill you want to develop, work on it now! The earlier you start the better!
-when you’re a teen, it’s normal to feel all sorts of emotions. If you’re feeling really depressed or lost, reach out to someone
-also, when you’re feeling upset, try distracting yourself with something that involves all of your attention. Even better if that something is productive. Best examples are exercising, playing an instrument, doing homework, video games (as long as it’s not a sad game!)
-your school life isnt everything! You have a life outside of school too.
-It’s okay if you’re not “cool”. Cool is subjective.
-If you can’t make friends at school that’s okay. try joining a group/club/activity/sport outside of school. You can also make some friends online
-Some adults say their teen years were “the best years of their life” and that you should “enjoy it while it lasts”. Although you should try to enjoy it as much as you can, don’t think that it should be “your best years” and that life gets worse when you become an adult. For many people, that’s NOT true. Everyone “peaks” at different points in their lives. Hell, most people don’t even have a single “peak”, they just have regular ups and downs throughout life.
-if you have an idea write it down don’t forget your amazing thoughts, and maybe one day you can work to achieve it
-don’t be discouraged if you can’t do something. Practice, practice, practice.
-don’t skip school. You’ll fall behind and it only makes things more stressful
-stay in school. You’ll regret it later of you don’t.
- try and stay positive even in the shittest situation. If you have positivity it will help you over come it all.
honestly,
- if you like something that isn’t “trendy” don’t hide it.
- if you find yourself drifting from your friends and they still hang out together: you are just discovering what you really value
- ask for help. if you have any kind of problem, your friends, especially your parents(!!!) can help.
