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I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feels what you feel.

Jewish wlw: you are wonderful and beautiful and so so loved. Jewish mlm: you are wonderful and handsome and so so loved. Jewish nblnb: you are wonderful and gorgeous and so so loved.

unfriendly reminder: this is a sex worker positive space. I will not tolerate the disrespect of sex workers here, and if you cant agree with that without a doubt then you're not welcome here.

sure would be nice if people other than porn blogs and sex workers reblogged this

My own heart fucks with me.

during the nights you can go to a hospital and stay in the waiting area somewhere!! might not work that well now because of covid, but hospitals are safe places and no one kicks you out when you spend the night on a chair in the waiting area because as far as they know someone you care about could be there or in surgery or whatever and you just want to wait there for them - and if a nurse does ask, you can always say that you're waiting for someone to pick you up but that it might take a while

you ever gave somebody else a motivational speech while you was hurt inside

Men need to be taken care of too. Ask him how work has been, prepare a meal, give him cuddles, run your fingers through his hair, give him love and affection. Make him feel safe & home

in the mood to be kissseddddd. all gentle and slow

I know you wouldn't be proud of me because it went against what you believed in, but I'm proud of me for finally knowing who I am without the layers of problems that you gave me me.

How is it possible to feel like you’re too much yet not enough at the same time?

it’s not overreacting to want to be treated with respect

Say that again

i hate when someone tells me i shouldn’t be tired bc i slept enough like sweetie i could sleep for ten years and i’d still be tired

I hope you find someone who randomly pulls you in closer late at night and won’t let go of you long after the hug is over and who just genuinely shows you that you’re all they really want in this world

I wanna wear pretty lingerie for someone and a big T-shirt and sit on their lap and make out and play with their hair and run my nails down their neck and back for a lil while