My 20s are slightly bent

‘Laziness’ by Félix Vallotton, c. 1896.

remember remember

If you ever find yourself fixated in the potential in someone else, remember that what you’re seeing is simply a reflection of the untapped potential in you✨

Psychology also links chronic over accommodation to fragile self worth. People with healthy self esteem don’t need to be liked to feel secure. They can tolerate tension, set boundaries without over explaining, and let others experience consequences. This matters emotionally and practically. In work, money, and relationships, avoiding discomfort often means giving away value and opportunities. Real maturity is kindness with boundaries, compassion without self betrayal, and knowing that sometimes protecting your peace means stepping back and letting people sit in what they caused

Psychology also links chronic over accommodation to fragile self worth. People with healthy self esteem don’t need to be liked to feel secure. They can tolerate tension, set boundaries without over explaining, and let others experience consequences. This matters emotionally and practically. In work, money, and relationships, avoiding discomfort often means giving away value and opportunities. Real maturity is kindness with boundaries, compassion without self betrayal, and knowing that sometimes protecting your peace means stepping back and letting people sit in what they caused