I don't think anyone understands that Feyre just didn't want to be with Tamlin anymore. Feyre, who was depressed, vomiting her guts out, feeling the blood of those she killed on her hands, thinking she should be dead and not even feeling the urge to eat, couldn't stay attached to someone who only had the energy to fuck her and couldn't even have a civil conversation without throwing a table at her. and she tried so hard.
Feyre doesn't do or speak against Tamlin. she sends him a note ending everything because after he locked her inside the mansion, she couldn't see him again. Tamlin goes after her and insists on a relationship she doesn't want. Tamlin is simply not a victim of Feyre.
although these people distort everything Rhys does, no one has to like him. but it's stupid to act like Feyre switched from Tamlin to Rhys when that didn't happen, so Rhys doesn't even belong in this conversation.
