love will tear us apart.

Some people say they don’t like to play games. They want to go straight to “the sex” or fucking and expect the person of their desires to hurry along with them. And they think that makes them somehow more “sincere” or “honest” than the rest of us!

“I just want to be me, no games” actually translates into “I don’t want to put any effort into getting in between your legs.” The artless approach works sometimes- especially when you and your partner know each other well and are both in need of a quick fuck. But in the beginning, and frequently thereafter, seducing your partner is a pleasure in itself and certainly makes “the sex” a richer and more satisfying experience. Furthermore, you may not get to the bedroom at all- or as often as you would like- if you don’t appreciate the power and art of seduction.