forest !! 🌈🍓

Gender: Boygirl, Transfemmasc, Galaxytumblric, 2016gender, Lolcatgender, 2010scringic, Quirkycringic

Age: 11-14

Source: Pokémon

Roles: Trans ID Embracer, Dead Dove, Artist

Personality: Cringey, Introverted, Quiet, Nerdy, Weird, Thoughtful, Kind, Observant

Likes: Weed, Writing/Reading Fan Fiction, Making OCs, Roleplaying

Dislikes: Authority Figures, Others Seeing Prns Art, Winter

Front Triggers: Smoking, Self-Insert Fan Fiction, Dead-Dove Content

Sign Offs: 🌱🪽, 📝🕊️, 🍀🦄, 🐾🍃

Typing Quirks: Uses All Lowercase, Uses 2015/2018 Slang Or Humor, Uses Lots Of Emoticons

Ex: this is an example text lolz!! :P 

Speech Quirks: Says Things Like “Lol/XD” Aloud, Speaks The Way Prn Types

Usernames: springcat3337, Xx_GalaxyPuff_xX, ArchiveOfLOL, 2l84h8

Fun Facts: Prn Despises Metaphors, Prn Loves Doing Theatre(On Occasion), Prn Likes To Collect Ramune Bottles, Prns Fav Dead Dove Trope Is Incest

Phobias: Chronophobia, Nosocomephobia, Pharmacophobia

Trans IDs: TransAnime, TransAge, TransAbled, TransArmCrutches, TransWolf

Cis IDs: CisLoser, CisAutistic, CisAwesomeSauce, CisBadMemory, CisAO3User, CisTumblrUser, CisTooManyOCs, CisArtist

Perma IDs: PermaMiddleSchool, PermaLoser, PermaOnline, PermaCreative, PermaGlasses, PermaSmoking

gender: transmasc, invenirevir, clutterboy, buggender, femtynic, weirdgender, naturebodiment

age: 6, chrono19

source: Pokémon

personality: bossy, ignorant, adaptable, adventurous, selfish, unforgiving, confident

roles: littlex, buffer, dead dove

likes: toys(littlest pet shop), coloring/drawing, gardening, petunias, fingerless gloves

dislikes: serious topics, school, summer, sweating

front triggers: childish things, nature/being outside, 

transids: transautistic, transmlphyperfixation, transage, null19, transgyaruo, transintersex, transpokétype, transdinosaurhyperfixation

cisids: cisbug, cisharmful, cisweird, cisADHD, cisparaphile

permaids: permaignored, permaproblematic, perma6, permacensored, permaharmful, permaplaying, permaBFBcharacter

stims:

moodboards:

small playlist:

regression song (4lung)

fighter (jack stauber)

kute (alex g)

Of course, learn basic Spanish phrases...

Spanish Tips

Use usted with elders instead of tú

Learn filler words

Practice Mexican slang carefully

Recognize accents. (north = clearer, center. coast = almost musical in rhythm.)

Don't overuse "gringo Spanish" like aye caramba

Learn how Mexicans indirectly say no (“Déjame ver,” “Luego te aviso,” “Ahorita.”)

Understand “ahorita” can mean 2 minutes… or never depending on tone.

Do not speak bluntly, politeness is valued

Try code-switching

Etiquette

Greet everybody with a handshake or cheek kiss

Bring small gifts when visiting people (often edible)

Be comfortable asking and answering personal questions, they come up often

Let elders eat and greet first

Always accept food and drink, even just a little

Family comes first

Don't interrupt

Teasing = affection

Keep humor in your words

Avoid criticizing Mexico if you are not Mexican

Food Culture

Learn regional foods. Tacos are different everywhere.

Eat with your hands for tacos

Don't overload tortillas... please

Try spicy foods gradually. "No pica" may still be spicy

Salsa colors mean nothing... green can be hotter than red

Try aguas frescas

Don't call Tex-Mex Mexican food

Learn eating schedule. Big lunch at 2-4 PM, late dinner

Learn how to POLITELY order street food/food in general

Traditions

Dia de Muertos is NOT horror- its remembrance!

Learn the meaning of marigolds and ofrendas

Respect the Virgin of Guadalupe as a national symbol

Respect Catholic Influence (even if you arent religious)

Experience posadas during Christmas

Learn MEXICAN INDEPENDENCE DAY (Sep 16), not Cinco de Mayo

Listen to traditional bands (such as mariachi) to help you understand emotional culture

Dance cumbia, salsa, and banda socially. You dont have to be perfect.

Respect indigenous culture. Mexico is not only Mestizo.

Learn regional identities (Yucatec Maya, Oaxacan, Norteño, etc)

Lifestyle

Mexicans are generally night people. Parties and events run late

Time is flexible (be patient when learning the time rules...)

Be expressive when talking. Hand gestures matter

Use cash

Learn public transport etiquette

Be respectful to the national anthem and flag. Patriotism is high

Avoid overly formal clothing

Show loyalty to your friends

Bring snacks to share at school or work

Mindset

Value community over individualism

Be humble

Understand tragic humor (dark humor)

Don't flaunt your wealth

Learn the concept of compadre/comadre (deep social bonds)

Understand colorism issues

Support small and local vendors

Do not haggle artisans

Learn a bit of indigenous vocabulary

Be patient.

Communication and presence

Be casual, warm, and expressive without forcing it

Use expressive hands when talking, but naturally

Politeness is valued. Avoid blunt or overly direct speech

Friendly tone often matters more than perfect wording

Respect and formality

Be polite with elders and in formal situations

Use usted vs. tú appropriately if writing or speaking Spanish

Respect is shown through tone, not distance

Humor and storytelling

Humor is often subtle and situational

Storytelling is common. Context usually comes before the point

Conversations may include overlap and shared anecdotes

Indirect communication

Learn how Mexicans indirectly say no

“Déjame ver” can mean probably not

“Luego te aviso” can mean don’t rely on it

“Ahorita” can mean soon, later, or never depending on tone

Reading context is more important than literal meaning

Spanish language habits

Drop subject pronouns often. Spanish does not need them most of the time

Use natural filler words like pues, o sea, la verdad, bueno

Use diminutives to soften speech. Ratito, momentito, cafecito

Learn regional vocabulary instead of generic “Spanish”

Code-switching

Code-switching happens naturally for bilingual speakers

Switching usually occurs mid-thought, not for emphasis

Do not force code-switching if you are not fluent

Accent and regional awareness

Recognize accents rather than copying them

Northern accents are often clearer and more clipped

Central accents are more neutral and steady

Coastal accents can sound more musical in rhythm

Cultural understanding

Learn Mexican history from Mexican scholars and creators, not just aesthetics or trends

Understand regional differences. Mexico is not one single culture

Support Mexican artists, businesses, and community spaces

What to avoid

Do not overuse “gringo Spanish” or meme phrases

Do not exaggerate accents or mannerisms

Do not fake an accent in English

Avoid relying on stereotypes

Best overall mindset

Aim to be respectful, informed, and curious

Listening well matters more than sounding impressive

Genuine warmth is valued more than performance

you may have heard things like "pro-consentual abuse" or "pro-consentual contact" and you may think to yourself "what is consent?"

consent means, in its barest form, "To give assent, as to the proposal of another; agree: synonym: assent." but we all know here that consent is a lot more nuanced than just that.

so, what is consent?

consent is an unambiguous, affirmative, and conscious decision by each person to engage in mutually agreed-upon sexual (or otherwise) activity. it has been agreed apon in this community that beings can consent to things like abuse, cnc, or other things people typically do not associate with consent.

"but where does consent stop and nonconsentually abuse begin?"

consent stops and nonconsentually abuse begins when a being can not safeword during cnc scenes, can not say no to certain abuse, or generally stops liking the dynamic and the other being doesnt stop.

when a being stops consenting, no matter if its mid scene or you think its ridiculous, stop. stop the scene, or the dynamic, and ask them "why did you stop consenting." while its not their duty to tell you why, it can help you further understand or help the previous dynamic being again with minor changes.

if you believe you are being nonconsentually abused, and the being your being nonconsentually abused by has not stopped despite you saying your not consenting anymore? leave them. if its online, block them. if its in real life, find resources in your area and use them.

you do not need to stay with them. even if you agreed to the abuse at first then realized you didnt like it later. while yes communicating with the other being may help in the future, you do not owe it to them.

"but moon," you may ask "what about two beings who both like nonconsentual abuse?"

two beings can like nonconsentual abuse and be in a relationship with each other. that is their business and, as long as they both agreed to the nonconsentual abuse in the beginning of the relationship, they have every right to stay with each other.

"but moon," you might ask again "what about beings that typically cant consent?"

"what does pro-consentual contact mean?"

there will be beings that you believe cant consent while others do believe they can consent. it's not your job to call them out, doxx, harass, or otherwise witch hunt the person for their beliefs.

pro-consentual contact (or p-cc as often referred to) can mean many things among many different beings. mostly it means the being believes that certain beings (animals, dead beings, minors, etc etc) can in fact consent, and that paraphiles should be able to interact with those beings as long as consent is given by both parties.

"what about pro-consentual abuse?"

pro-consentual abuse refers to the belief that a being can consent to abuse before it happens. this is mostly used by trans/cis/tris harmed and/or harmfuls in their dynamtics together.

this has been a post by moon.

good morning, good evening, and good night.