unfriendly reminder that if a person is a he/they or a she/they itโs hella uncool to exclusively use their binary pronouns and iโm personally mad at you rn :)
YMMV on this, i go by she/they and i would rather someone pick one and stick with it. pronouns have a PRACTICAL USE; if you keep flip-flopping between them in the same sentence and itโs unclear who youโre talking about, you might as well just use my name.
Thatโs totally fine if thatโs what youโre comfortable with! Iโve clarified a few times now in asks & other reblogs, but this was a general post and of course cannot apply to every single nonbinary personโs experience; since โnonbinaryโ is an extremely diverse experience!
Plenty of people are fine with individuals picking one and sticking to it, just as plenty of people donโt mind, just as plenty of people prefer for others to switch it up, and thereโs nothing wrong with that. And of course switching things up doesnโt mean you have to alternate every other word โ just when possible while maintaining clarity. Generally, Iโve found it best just to ask first ^^!
