The blatant misunderstanding of why fans are pissed off at certain spoilers bothers me.
Rhaella being bitter after years of abuse is not the issue. The issue is her abusing her small son over her evil husband, while the evil husband is portrayed as the loving, protective parent to Viserys. And she's racist, too?????
Lyanna having a will of her own is not an issue. The issue is her acting downright insane for a prophecy it wasn't ever even hinted she was into in the books. By all accounts her motivation was supposed to be escaping Robert and infatuation with Rhaegar.
Elia playing the game of thrones isn't the issue. The issue is her playing it in a way that does not even benefit her, her children, or Dorne, only benefits her husband and others. Just read any Elia-cemtric story, and you will see how much her fans love her playing the games to benefit herself.
Ashara could have a thousand lovers for all I care, but I can't deny its uncomfortably orientalist.
Do I even need to say why hinting Daenerys will go mad pisses her fans off? I'm not even a fan of hers, but I can see why people who are do not like this. Or the fact that she has to share being Azor Ahai with Jon.
These are genuine grievances from people who adore these female characters and A Song of Ice and Fire. It's unkind to dismiss them with the lie that they don't care about anything beyond the female characters being "perfect victims".
Get off your high horse, if these people wanted only perfect characters, they wouldn't be reading this series.









