CISHETS AND FEM ALIGNED SELF SHIPPERS,

when you go out of your way to hardblock an mlm self shipper for daring to speak their mind, for daring to demand more respect in a woman dominated community, for having the audacity to ask for more attention and understanding in regards to their ships an their voices, you are pushing them into a corner. you, self shippers with tons of followers and so much reach, blocking mlm self shippers blocks us from being seen or heard or given a wider platform to show our love and our content and our passion. you, who may not be blocking us, only giving our content an occasional like and sharing fem ships above our work, are showing your true colors.

and i notice this doesn’t happen nearly as much with wlw (and sometimes wlw act the exact same way when it comes to mlm), which makes me wonder if we are being so shunned because of a ridiculous fear that we are going to “steal” your male f/os or get more attention for it.

newsflash: shunning trans self shippers - transmasc or transfem - for any reason is transphobic.

you are transphobic. and you may be homophobic as well.

we do not make posts about our struggles to get to you. but if we are getting to you, maybe you need to step back and re-evaluate yourself. maybe you need to unlearn your internal transphobic and homophobic ideas.

we are a community fictionally dating fictional characters. the people behind the screens? they’re real.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY THANK YOU FOR EXISTING WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH WE ALL DO AND I JUST HAD TO SAY IT HERE TO!! I LOVE YOU STAY SAFE, HYDRATED AND EAT SOMETHING AND HUG YOUR F/OS HUN

LET US ALL AN YOUR F/OS TREAT YOU AND SPOIL YOUU❤❤❤❤❤

YOURE VALID AND DO MATTER

(TW Talk of body image, body image issues, and specific body types) (Also please read the tags!)

AHHHH YES YOU TWO ARE SO CUTEEEEEEEEEE YES YES HELP EACHOTHER SO THE OTHER LOVES THEMSELVES MOREEEEE NO MATTER HOW LONG IT TAKESSSSS

SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND LOVE EACHOTHERRRRR

Those messenger screen names that haven’t logged on in ages, some before detailed profiles were a thing on those services.

Those emails that are long since abandoned, some with domains that no longer exist.

Those online friends you knew years ago and who then helped shaped you in some way, who you just can’t FIND anymore.

Those people who once were, and hopefully still exist IRL, that seem to have no known internet life anymore.

And those who have actually passed on, and their online lives are now a memorial to them.