being a Dom sometimes means being what they physically can hold onto in tough times...even if your sub grabs you a little too hard
For context, we went hiking in rather warm weather today. That meant driving us all to the local state park, making sure we had water, breakfast, snacks, hats, sunscreen, and bug spray. Vetoing jokes about jumping off cliffs. Being the sturdy hand as we go down stairs so softgirl doesn't tumble. Making sure we take breaks and being patient even when I am ready to go. Holding my girl's hand as we walk through the cave even when her nails dig into me. Making sure we get back into AC to cool off. Letting go of my plans for more hiking because I know my girls have had enough. Getting us home safely.
This is what being a real Dom looks like. It isn't all BDSM mind games, anyone can say clever words or spark excitement for a brief time. The real work of a Dom happens in the mundane , and sometimes it is just about being the Adult in the room so my girls can enjoy themselves.

















