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lol how they looked at each other when the song started like oh shit this our jam lolol

Grooving to the beat is a more base human trait than any gender norm will ever be

They’re teenagers now.

Forever pining for the version of Mom City that paralleled Dottie with Georgie to look at the question of how do you be mad at the parent who was doing their best but still failed to give you what you needed/protect you. How do you be mad at the parent who was dealing with the same tragedy you were/who has scars from the same man. And how letting yourself be mad is a crucial step to forgiving them.

I find this very interesting because watching it I see a comparison of what happens in that situation when you come together like Georgie and Jamie and share it and where you don’t acknowledge it or let it process and how that can fester. I love seeing how different people view the same story.

you can pry starting sentences with 'and' or 'but' out of my cold, dead hands

do non-dutch people know that nijntje is just a cutesy childish shortened version of konijntje (little rabbit)???? it just occurred to me that 'miffy' does NOT follow this convention

when the blackberry bushes have thorns to discourage mammals from monopolizing the consumption of their fruits and encourage birds to spread their seeds but they don’t know that the mammal in question is ME #notdiscouraged

#ow

#stuck

genuinely insane to me that bikinis are the Default swimwear marketed & sold to women. that's nylon underwear. & if you don't want to wear one people treat you like you're childish & insecure & suggest ways to "get over it"

"i feel uncomfortable with the idea of wearing what amounts to fast-drying underwear in front of other people, many of them complete strangers" "have you tried gradually acclimating to showing more & more skin? have you tried being more confident? are you ashamed of your body? don't you want to show off your beach bod?" girl what the fuck are you talking about!!!

wearing a bikini is all about confidence & self-love 🥰 but remember to wax all that icky yucky body hair first!!! 🤢 nobody wants to see that 🙅‍♀️

You say “I prefer a bathing suit that covers my back so it’s easier to apply sunscreen” and people look at you like you said you have two heads

"Who stabbed you in the eye, Polyphemus?" "Moi! Moi stabbed me!" "He stabbed himself. Sad."

*guy who doesn't know anything about sports and has never cared about sports in his life* hey did you know womens professional baseball is returning after 70 years and the games are going to be streamed for free on youtube and the season starts august 1st

buzz aldrin and neil armstrong liked to do a thing where they’d tell unfunny jokes at parties about being on the moon and when people were confused they’d go “guess you had to have been there”

deriding things as performative is anti third space

im sitting on a patio at my favorite cafe rn and im hand stitching them hem of a dress im working on. and i can see why someone would say im being performative by working on something like this in a public space. but frankly theres no element of that. i just want to work somewhere that isnt my apartment. i want to be in public, i wanna chat with strangers, i wanna see the world. it’s nice to hang out somewhere that isnt my home!

what i mean is when you say people are being performative you discourage them from doing shit they love in public. and thats no way to foster the world we want to see.