âTurning the entire debate into, âIâm 30, and I was scared by something at age 5, but I came out fineâ is entirely discounting what it feels like to be scared as a kid, or what itâs like as a parent to be helpless in the face of a childâs irrational terror. The question isnât whether watching Aliens as an 11-year-old is going to irreparably destroy someoneâs life, forcing them to be institutionalized and tranquilized until their untimely Aliens-induced suicide. Like so many other questions about child-rearing, itâs about whatâs right for individuals in the moment, and who gets to make those choices.â
A Matt Zoller Seitz essay about showing his 11-year-old and his friends Aliens at a slumber party has set off an online furor about whether it was appropriate for him to do so. As with so many Internet debates, both sides are missing the point: Thereâs no such thing as a universal âright ageâ for movies, scary or otherwise. [Read more...]










