Just thinking about how much I love Katara and Tophās friendship. I mean, sure Katara kinda reminded Toph about her parents over-control and the stars comment was absolutely brutal, but in the end, I feel like Katara truly saw Toph as her own person. I donāt know about you, but if I was a disabled kid whose parents constantly infantilized her and treated her like a helpless baby, having a friend whoād insult me and argue with me like equals would be kinda cathartic. I think thatās part of the reason why Toph loved Earth Rumble wrestling thing so much. Katara didnāt see Toph as a helpless blind kid, just an unhelpful one. She didnāt give her an out just because sheās blind. She treated her like sheād treat anyone else and I think thatās part of would mean a lot to a disabled person.