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Pro / neu harassment

Oh, hey btw idc what your stance is. If you send sensitive ppl images of gore/strobing lights ur a piece of shit

- Anti cdd sentiment was baked into the actions of the movement

- Those actions made cdd ableism a major part of early endogenic communities

- Very little active attempt to deconstruct these beliefs are done by most endogenic plurals or their supporters

You didn’t read anything, actually. Because if you did, you would have seen the countless web pages of people complaining about those with DID. You would have seen the passages calling us whiney babies, traumatized little princesses who can’t do anything, and how we’re so unstable and unpredictable that we don’t deserve to be in public.

These people fucking hated us. The way they wrote about us was beyond ableist and disgusting.

Stop making excuses for a group of people who would call us the scum of the earth for being disabled and traumatized. (Not aimed at you, obviously)

Imo i feel like we should redefine what “harassment” actually is and distinguish it from what people actually should be doing to (ADULT)radqueers/proshippers/darkshippers etc.

Accountability, ostracizing, shaming, exposing, and spreading awareness about someone like that shouldn’t be associated with harassment, it’s the proper way to deal with predators

Telling someone to kts/sh, doxxing them, doxxing family members, denying their transness if they are trans, sending gore, lolcow-ifying them, THAT is harassment and shouldn’t be grouped up with the former

Associating the justified reactions towards predators with a term like “harassment” can be super harmful!!

Whether you are striving for a diagnosis and do have the means

Whether you’re striving for a diagnosis but don’t have the means

Whether a diagnosis isn’t something you’re striving for

Or whether a diagnosis isn’t a priority right now

fyi im pro recovery even if you think youre "too far gone".

fyi im pro recovery even if youre not ready yet.

fyi im pro recovery even if it my recovery looks different than yours.

fyi youre valid in your recovery.

i believe you can recover from wanting to hurt people.

i believe you can apologize to the people you've hurt.

So we had the great displeasure of talking to a Willo "system" (we did not know they were Willogenic until recently.) And they confessed. By this point we had LEARNED they were willo, because the whole conversation came up when we called them out. Basically it was this:

"We found a post saying you're willogenic, you do know we're anti willo, right? We've said this before."

"Well yes, but we wanted to try to subtly prove we exist to you..."

"It's not going to work. Why put in so much effort for a useless cause?"

"Because we have a crush on you :("

"What."

And then they went on a tangent like "we can put ourselves in a risky situation to get repetitive trauma if it means you'll like us more" (they apparently believe that DID can form at ages 15-16 as well. I'm not convinced that is possible, but even if it was, wtf???)

Anyway we rejected them, they got mad and blocked us, and we later on found out through a mutual that they "willoed" every headmate they knew we had into their "system" as a "willo subsys" (???) And were now saying they were dating that "subsys" ?????