The mindful monkey

Marshall Rosenberg (October 6, 1934 – February 7, 2015) was an American psychologist, mediator, author and teacher. Starting in the early 1960s he developed Nonviolent Communication, a process for supporting partnership and resolving conflict within people, in relationships, and in society. He worked worldwide as a peacemaker and founded the Center for Nonviolent Communication,[1] an international non-profit organization [2] for which he served as Director of Educational Services.

Bibliography

(2012) Living Nonviolent Communication: Practical Tools to Connect and Communicate Skillfully in Every Situation. (288 pages; compilation of prior short works) Sounds True. ISBN 978-1604077872

(2005) Being Me, Loving You: A Practical Guide to Extraordinary Relationships. (80 pages) ISBN 978-1892005168

(2005) Practical Spirituality: The Spiritual Basis of Nonviolent Communication. (32 pages) ISBN 978-1892005144

(2005) Speak Peace in a World of Conflict: What You Say Next Will Change Your World. (240 pages) Encinitas, CA: PuddleDancer Press. ISBN 1-892005-17-4

(2005) The Surprising Purpose of Anger: Beyond Anger Management: Finding the Gift. (48 pages) ISBN 978-1892005151

(2004) Getting Past the Pain Between Us: Healing and Reconciliation Without Compromise. (48 pages) ISBN 978-1892005076

(2004) The Heart of Social Change: How to Make a Difference in Your World. (45 pages) ISBN 978-1892005106

(2004) Raising Children Compassionately: Parenting the Nonviolent Communication Way. (48 pages) ISBN 978-1892005090

(2004) Teaching Children Compassionately: How Students and Teachers Can Succeed with Mutual Understanding (41 pages) ISBN 978-1892005113

(2004) We Can Work It Out: Resolving Conflicts Peacefully and Powerfully. (32 pages) ISBN 978-1892005120

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(1986) Duck Tales and Jackal Taming Hints. Booklet. (Out of Print)

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People are paying so much attention on what they eat (and spend a lot), but less on how they eat it.

One concept of MINDFUL EATING, which you might try to apply more in your daily life is "BASICS": - Breathe and belly check for hunger - Assess your food - Slow down - Investigate your hunger throughout the meal - Chew your food thouroughly - Savor your food (celebrate food and life)

How to “Notice-Shift-Rewire”

Notice: The first step is to Notice – become aware of where your attention is directed. In most cases, you will likely find that your attention is scattered – involved in the ordinary mental habit that psychologists call “mind wandering.”

Shift: The second step is to Shift – to redirect your attention to the present moment. You can do this by bringing your attention to any object of focus, the breath, sounds around you, sensations in your body or even something to feel grateful for.

Sometimes we look back in life and feel that was nothing like I expected, yet everything I needed. Take refuge in don’t know...

Story:

A wise man lost his favourite horse, and the neighbors were saying “Ah, that’s bad”. He replied: “I don’t know. Maybe.” The following day the horse appears again, together with many other horses. The neighbors say “Ah, that’s good!”. He replied: “I don’t know. Maybe." His son, playing with one of the new horses, falls down and breaks his leg. The neighbors interpret this as unfortunate. The wise man replies: “I don’t know. Maybe.” One week later, the country is in now in sudden war, and every young man in the village needs to fight. His soon is exempted, because his leg is broken and he cannot walk. The neighbours said he is a lucky man. But he says: “I don’t know. Maybe.”