RockNRollWithIt

my mind hand touched a hot memory stove

Stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone

Anytime someone from church asks about my relationship status, I tell them to go read 1 Corinthians 7 and then get back to me.

"If it was OK for Paul to be single, it's OK for me too, right?" They can't argue with that. 😂

Soulmates aren't just lovers – they can be friends too. Your soulmates naturally recognize you, vibe with you & align with you. They understand you, value you, support you, love you, heal with you & grow with you. They make you feel beautiful in your own skin just for being YOU.

Normalize never forcing people to choose you. If someone thinks they can get better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.

Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.

And peace, and room to grow alone, together.

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“You deserve a relationship that enables you to sleep peacefully at night.”

Especially with YOURSELF!

I don't believe any character death has ever made me angrier than when Uncas died in the Last of the Mohicans, I'd gone mad rooting for him this whole damn time, he was Mohican Legolas and I love him now what how do I go on

"are you okay?" . . . no but I'm hot and funny