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1: You cannot be a Jirai without being a landmine. They are the same thing.

2: Jirai Kei isn't the fashion style but is HEAVILY ASSOCIATED with a specific style of fashion. If you are talking about the fashion style in a vacuum it makes more sense to refer to it as dark girly. Like ppl will know what you mean if you say Jirai Kei to refer to clothing but it's still technically incorrect. I don't really care much about this topic.

3: If you call yourself a Jirai but just wear the fashion you aren't a jirai... Jirai Kei is so much more than the clothes you wear. Lifestyle Jirais are the ONLY actual Jirais.

4: Jirai is a reclaimed term that was used to demean groups of mentally ill people in the past. If you call yourself a Jirai but aren't mentally ill you're just being an asshole. (or at least are uneducated on the history of Jirai Kei.) Using reclaimed terms that do not apply to you as an "aesthetic" is a bitchy thing to do.

people will go "omgg toxic yaoi yess"

but uhm the thing is

can some of you please stop using jirai danshi/jirai boy tag just for views and notes when you're not 😭 ??

it's like tagging menhera in jirai posts, it's not really for you 🙏

I don't really see jirai danshis using the jirai onna/jirai girl tag either so,,

Jirai lifestyle girl who's a sh addict x The school nurse's daughter who helps her out in the nurse's office

i can't remember the first 10 years of my life. i can't remember entire days, weeks, months at a time. i can't remember entire people, i can't remember names or faces. i can't remember when things are scheduled for, my calendar app on my phone is booked to the max with reminders and task checklists. i can't remember when i moved into what home when, i can't remember important milestone dates like when i got or lost certain jobs, or when i started a new hobby.

that's what i mean when i say i have poor memory. poor memory is so scary for the person who has it. it's not a quirky thing, everyone forgets small details. memory problems are scary because you can go through entire events or days with no memory, or plan for things in the future that you can't recall ever even looking into or scheduling. it's not a funny haha kind of thing, it's serious, and it affects a lot of people in very unavoidable ways.