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What is love? Love is who and what you really are. It´s an eternal state of pure positive, appreciative consciousness. When you, in your physical life, are thinking thoughts that are in line with that pure positive focus, that focus is reflected to you through the feeling we call love. Love is the emotional reflection of the vibration of oneness, and it exists only in the present. The emotion of love is your indication that you are holding the exact same perspective toward what you are looking at that your soul or higher self holds. In this way, love is the state of perfect alignment with your soul. Love is the practice of maintaining a focus toward yourself or others that is always appreciative. We can simplify all of this by saying that love is pure, positive focus. Self-appreciation is not just the fertilizer for self-love, it is self-love. On the other hand, any time you are focused negatively towards others or yourself, you are not in the state of love. Love is therefore a moment-to-moment decision that you become more skilled at doing the more you practice.

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Practice being completely present. Imagine letting this strong energy stream of the moment into your body. Then you´re backed by ten times more energy. Instead for example worrying about the result of what you´re doing (future).

Emotion is simply a physical, chemical translation of the energetic vibrations we perceive around us. Your emotions are a translation, informing you at all moments of the day of where you stand energetically in relation to your higher self. You are biochemically hard wired to go in the direction of alignment.

#emotions

Teal cancels an event to first resolve even a lick of resistance as otherwise the result can´t be good. Also, you´ll have to work 400 times more for very little outcome.

#resistance

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authentic relationship is a co-creation. when relationship is coming from codependency, it is inauthentic. authentic relationship is dependant on you being honest about your own desires, your own personal needs that you are capable of looking at the other person with their own needs, desires etc and ask how can we make this work so that it´s a win for both of us. that´s AUTHENTICITY. the struggle for codependant is to admit to and express their honest truth about themselves as they don´t believe it makes them lovable. they have very low self-esteem. So they hide it but it is expressed covertly, in narcissistic ways. seeing yourself as a BAD PERSON makes you much safer for others. how many of you had the self-sacrifice mother? she gives everything up for you. and whenever you do sth they don´t want, my god do they remind you of it. wouldn´t it be 10 times better to have selfish mother who says what they don´t like into your face. that´s hundred times better than having a mother that gaslights you your whole life by a mother who feels all those things but says and does exactly the opposite.

codependants hide behind the lorel of goodness. so what they do is say “I just give myself up for other people” - SELF-SACRIFICE. no, you can´t actually give yourself up. it´s impossible for human ego. most of what you are doing is for your own self-concept. this is the first thing to understand.

the second thing to understand is that you can´t give up your wants and needs. it´s impossible. if you bury your needs for the sake of your partner, they´ll come out in covert ways. UNMET NEEDS = MANIPULATION.

BOUNDARIES. if you don´t want to hang out with someone, you need to say that to them. you can´t say that Teal has me working on a new video. People who are codependent create conflict everywhere around them. they do things like that, they make the other person the enemy. so the people around them are constantly hating each other.

ACCOUNTABILITY. healing from codependency is dependant on your willingness to accept the pressure. you are obsessed with getting away from pressure. there are lots of different forms of pressure, responsibility is one of them, staying out of trouble, self-concept of being bad is pressure. you need to become okey with it. live your life choosing the kind of pressure you want. instead of living a life trying to get away from the pressure you don´t want. that is needed for COMMITMENT.

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Self-love is like the root from which everything grows. If you trace no matter which problem in your life to it´s root, you´ll find it´s a problem with self-love

#self-love

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As humans, we are deeply afraid that if we don´t punish ourselves on a daily basis that nothing will drive us to success or to goodness. This… Is a lie we´ve been conditioned to believe.

Productivity can only be the result of inspiration. When one is inspired, the productivity takes no effort. Manifestation and fruition is the quick and natural byproduct of being in the flow of creation. So the real question is not how do I become more productive, it is how do I become more inspired?

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We need to dedicate our lives to the practice of softness, softness with ourselves and with others. We need to do this with our thoughts, words and actions. Always choose what feels softer. For example the thought “I know I should do that” is hard. The words “I´m ridiculous” are hard. The act of doing something you don´t really want to do is hard. We have a choice relative to all things.

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We must be willing to take the risk of change and the risk of placing value on our joy. If we take this risk, we are committing to the willingness for our entire life and our entire direction to change. We are committing to our direction changing perhaps several times over the course of our lives. Only with this commitment is it possible to be truly happy and express your purpose

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We have to be seen as good to maintain social favor and thus love, and we must maintain love to survive and so we do what we do with all other unacceptable aspect of ourselves, we banish it to the subconscious. We deny, suppress, reject and disown those desires. They do not go away, they simply take up resistance in the subconscious mind. We still make decisions because of those desires and we still go after those desires, but we take detours to do it and we don´t really know why we are doing it.

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We come to love learning, by releasing our attachment to knowing. We release our attachment to knowing by facing and releasing our fears about not knowing.

#learning

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FORMS OF RESISTANCE

Your emotion will always tell you whether you are in a state of resistance or allowing because emotion is the physical reflection of the vibration that you hold.

Resistance is oppositional force. It can be obvious such as people or circumstances that oppose you. But it can also be internal. What we don´t know is that external resistance is a reflection of internal resistance - usually internal resistance we are completely unaware of.

Resistance comes in the form of any thought, belief, word, desire or action that pulls against the thing you want. Select what you want and then watch every thought you think and with each one, decide whether that thought pulls towards or against the thing you want. If it pulls in the direction of what you want, it will feel like relief internally. If it pulls against what you want, it will feel like tension or pressure internally.

We all have multiple personalities within one body. The aspects of those internal selves often oppose one another. That way you end up with internal resistance as one pulls one direction while the other to another. It causes us pain as we can not move forward as one integral being.

Forms of resistance :

Sometimes, our real reason for doing something is not actually in alignment with who we are authentically and what we want authentically. When this is the case, we fall out of touch with why we are even trying to succeed at what we are trying to succeed at. Because of this, not all parts of us are on board with our goal. It starts to seem like our bodies sabotage us and our actions sabotage us.

We must think we are good to such a degree that we cannot open up our vision wide enough to recognize aspects of ourselves that are out of alignment. We have to take a good look at our justifications - the very rational, mature reasons we give ourselves for why we cannot do something we feel inspired to do or even know we must do. We have to decide if it is more important to be right or more important to let ourselves feel joy.

In order to avoid abandonment and social conflict, we ´put a lid on ourselves´. We restrict ourselves, we go against our natural desires. We deaden ourselves and our ability to feel so we can live in this state or shall I say, not really live. We experience shame for our sensual pleasures, sexuality, sensuality and virility. We have our personal power over to others to avoid consequences and we lose touch with our passion and purpose as a result. As a result, we lose our vitality and feel like we have no energy.

No amount of action will replace the damage a thought “I can´t“ does but you can absolutely use action to create the quality thoughts you are thinking.

#forms of resistance #✓

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