Ciao

“and this is when, through the magic of the internet, i met phil. and obviously, we were more than friends, but it was more than just romantic. this is someone that genuinely liked me. i trusted them, and for the first time since i was a tiny child, i actually felt safe. and the relationship we formed at that point was something i needed in my life. we are real best friends, companions through life. like, actual soulmates. it’s so lucky to just find someone you can be that compatible with. and especially to anyone that has experienced the kind of self hatred that i have dealt with, one person accepting you can make all the difference.”

honestly, Phil's been pushing back at toxic masculinity for years with his moisturizers and scented body washes etc. But it doesnt fit the phandom narrative so it gets ignored