As a African-American and Indian trans woman, I'll happily say that when dealing with racism. I'd prefer it to be an old white man with a trump hat, Confederate flag, or even shit like the Balkenkreuz on them.
Because it's so fuckin easy to tell what's about to happen, when, how, and why. Grew up my whole life being taught how to act around these people not to upset them or make for a fight I wasn't ready to take. I carry a gun on my hip, and have a strong personality now. But I still know how to not cause an incident in a fucking grocery store. This is explicit racism and it's easy to see, learn, and prep for. I've had people follow me around stores, ask if I'd stolen my car, tell me not to buy fuel at their gas station, all pre-transition. Now? I've been told I make my entire personality "being black" by white trans femmes, been told "all you care to talk about is politics," by white trans femmes. Had them harass my family trying to find out what happened to me when I ditched the group they were in for somewhere better.
White people in general also have a 'subtle' form of racism that allows for plausible deniability of the words and actions being racist in nature called implicit racism because it's not "consciously done" in nature, it's an internal bias that functions on the subconscious level making it even more insidious. These usually take form in micro aggressions and other such behaviors where one doesn't really think about what they said or did, nor how it was offensive and bigoted in nature. It's only subtle to them and then alone! Any other socially conscious person will see it. But for all of the countless people who think racism died in the US in 1964, they don't see implicit racism and stereotypes, micro aggressive actions and statements, are all met with the wall of "it's a joke," "we're just kidding," "no one actually believes those things," "can't you just laugh," and so many other dumb fucking excuses for why we should just let racism pass.
"I can excuse racism, but I draw the line at animal cruelty."
There are actually a fuck load of people who legitimately act and behave like this.
If you think you're not a racist, I want you to stop and think every time you speak to a BIPOC and really check yourself to see if you're about to say something that's rooted in prejudice and socially conditioned thought. Because I get pissed when I hear the stories of other POC trans folks and how white folks in our own damn community treat us!!
We're not your gods, goddess, deities, kings, queens, monarchs, or any of that annoying shit that disingenuous white queers will call us to feign support. "It's giving strong black goddess!" No! It's giving, I wanna look cute now let's try and treat me like a fucking person.