#ziams

hesitates for some time, then you can see him turning to liam and if you turn the volume up you can hear the mic picking up zayn says “it’s you” to liam

The point is Home, End of the Day, etc can’t be gate-kept and details of their stories can’t be ignored (for example, RBB/SBB and the Sophiam countdown) regardless of how it fits their narrative.

Holaa, el término correcto es ziam, en plural ziams, no ziammies, no ziamistas, ziamistas es despectivo.

Nos denominamos así ya que liam lo dijo en un live con Tom.

I only ever talk about them because people explicitly ask me (often by spamming) and I don’t want to ignore them/I’m trying to answer their question, so they will stop. 

Honestly, I’m finding it pretty upsetting that I can’t have my own blog, where I’m just doing my own thing, without people sending me (literally) 50 messages a day about how I’m a ‘piece of shit’ for not personally being into Ziam. It’s harassment. 

I also don’t understand it, because literally all I’ve said is:

- That I’m not comfortable with extensive speculation on their kids (and that I'm becoming uncomfortable with that regarding Louis too - I just don’t think it achieves anything). 

- That I am happy for people to be into Ziam if they want and talk about it on their blog. I don’t visit Ziam blogs to harass them, so coming here to harass me isn’t okay. I’m not doing anything to you by sitting here and not interacting with you. 

- That I personally think Zayn seems happy (which is not homophobic to say...like what the fuck), and that Liam’s situation is weird. I have never said either of them are gay or straight or anything else - I don’t know, and neither does anyone else. 

- That I’ve read the (literally a hundred) masterposts people have sent to me and I PERSONALLY don’t agree that they are convincing, and I’m entitled to think that. If you don’t want to know my opinion, stop sending them and stop asking me. It’s not ‘bullying’ or ‘high and mighty’ to say ‘this is what I personally think on this thing you’ve asked me about’ on my own blog. 

At this point I’m thinking of deleting because the level of harassment I’m getting from self identified Ziams, when I literally do not interact with them other than to answer their question, is getting out of hand. I have to block close to 30 people a day now, because I’m being sent really weird and abusive stuff, including people encouraging self harm and suicide. 

Like...I don’t have a problem with people who don’t ‘believe’ in Larry, unless they attack people for it or act like a blatant bigot. I don’t seek them out and interact with them. I understand why people aren’t interested in it, and I think it’s poor form to try and ‘convert’ people. Similarly, I don’t think there’s an excuse for harassing people who don’t personally ‘believe’ in Ziam, unless they are harassing you first. 

The thing that’s ironic is that a lot of Ziams say ‘we just want larries to look at the evidence and take the time to think about it, and not abuse us’. And that’s...literally what I’ve done. I’ve read what I’ve been sent, I’ve read masterposts. And I’ve said time and time again, I don’t mind people being into Ziam at all and I have no desire to attack or police them. 

But apparently that’s still not good enough and unless random blogs bend to people’s will re Ziam, it’s fair game to send them 50 abusive anons in a day? 

And I literally can’t not address asks like this, because the abuse won’t stop. I don’t know how many posts I need to write where I say ‘I don’t personally agree, but I’m happy for you to think what you want’, for people to get that I don’t have to agree with them, and that harassing me daily isn’t normal.