I Broke Up With My Boyfriend
I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months. For the past 2 1/2 months he hasn't replied to a single text message. Therefore, I haven't sent one for about the past month. I miss him incredibly. I love him so much, but I don't know what to do? I saw him once in this time period because his mom forced us to talk. She told me it was the only time she's seen him smile, but he still didn't talk to me after. What do I do?
Though it’s not entirely clear, it sounds like you are the one who broke up with your boyfriend. Why is that? It seems like you still love him and really miss him, yet there’s a reason that the two of you have decided to split and it’s keeping you apart. Knowing this reason would really help me point you in a clearer direction (so please feel free to write back to us!)
Because maybe I’ve misunderstood and it was actually him who ended the relationship. If this is the case, and he’s choosing to ignore your text messages, it would seem pretty clear to me that he’s trying to move on from your relationship and that he has no desire to get back together.
Either way, here’s the thing: you can’t make him talk. You can’t make him want to be with you again. You can’t change his mind.
Maybe he’s making a huge mistake by not trying to work things out with you, but it sounds like that’s the decision he’s made.
You deserve to be with someone who wants you more than anything or anyone else. Don’t waste your time on someone who’s so willing to pass you up.
