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Aw darn it ): I didn’t try but thanks for letting me know. I wish you could because $1 is a lot easier to donate for most of us but oh well ):

1. Name three things in your life that make you feel happy and positive

My pets, my good friends, and good food

2. What do you do to try and be more positive?

I spend time at my favorite fraternity (my happy place) or with good friends or just being by myself for awhile. I listen to good, upbeat music, and remind myself that everything is temporary and that happiness really is a choice. I try to start every day with a positive view on things and try to shake bad things off as much as I can

3.What do you like to do to relax?

I spend time alone watching TV or reading a good book. Sometimes I just listen to music and blog. Sometimes I play video games. Sometimes I go to Sigma Pi and play beer pong (honestly). Sometimes I drink a glass of wine. Sometimes I take a shower.

4. What is your favourite quote?

"Not all those who wander are lost." (by Tolkien)... I think it highlights both a sense of wanderlust that I have (I always want to travel and go new places) as well as a sense that it's okay to still be figuring things out and to change things around in your life at any time. It also doesn't hurt that it comes from one of my favorite authors.

5. Everybody has a part of their body that they dislike. Say something positive about yours

I don't always like my butt, but it's starting to get more perky after weightlifting and it's for sure stronger and curvier now as well and it's just gonna keep getting better as far as I'm concerned.

6. Who are your positive role models?

My big sister. Emma Watson. JK Rowling. Jennifer Lawrence. Natalie Dormer.

7. Who should do this tag next

This is maturity, and this is growing up! 

I was talking to my friend about my ex, and well he sent me a text the other day that hit me a bit, he said, "I know you still hate me but I hope you're doing well." See the thing is, I don't hate him, hate is an incredibly strong word. I'm hurt, he broke my heart into a thousand pieces and it is still healing. 

I replied with a very polite, "Hate is a very strong word, I don't hate you. I'm doing great thanks, I hope you're doing well too."

Sure I'm only 21, but I DO NOT and have refused to be the crazy ex girlfriend. Some of my mates have had them and you should hear the way they talk about them. Sure I've said some horrible things about him, I've ripped up photos, when doing boxing I imagine his head are the mits, but I do this in my own privacy because it does not need to be a public matter. 

I decided as soon as our relationship ended, I wanted to be as mature about it all as I could be, I still wanted his friends to like me, cause I still adore them and have fun with them when I see them out. I decided that even though in 2015, I am going to let my hair down, I'm still going to be more mature than I have been in the past. Considering now I'm 21, I want to act (as much as I can) like the grown up the world expects me to be, although, I'm still going to party and travel whenever my little heart desires. I'm not going to get into a serious relationship, but if I fancy someone, I might date them, or just sleep with them. I want to be a better, happier version of me, that I lost for so many years and I think by being mature about everything, I am being that person.

On Wednesday, my best friend asked me to come along with her and our friend to Europe with them. They had already booked quite a while ago, so I as much as I wanted to go, I was worried I wouldn't of been able to get on the same flights and cruises as them. 

BUT GUESS WHAT! The travel agent is my angel and booked me everything with them!

We leave in June! This is honestly a dream come true for me! I didn't think I would be able to go till next year but its happening and I should be able to afford it without borrowing too much money from mum! (Hopefully none)