#wkthoughts

I can't even begin to express the amount of PTSD I felt watching this video!! This is as accurate to a toxic relationship as it gets, and I've been 'that' dude on too many days. Handcuffed by the gynocentric entitlements of an emotional tirade of a woman, and having to just 'deal with it'...just to be lured back into the web of the black widow once more. The moment I started to outline and assess my own values from within, I no longer had to put up with being treated as a 'tool' or 'emotional punching bag'. I didn't have to spaz out or react to the madness; I just simply walked away, or kept my distance. This dude is being treated like a sad puppy that pooped on the carpet, chewed up her shoes, and knocked over her collection of Pineapple Ciroc! I will never in my existence return to this type of situation, and in order for me to overcome it, I had to step completely away from all things/people/places associated with it, as well as refuse any line of communication with the problem. I had my own toxic behaviors I had to absolve, but I realized that those behaviors were acts of rebellion towards the situation I could not control. Once I got away, those feelings, thoughts, and actions went completely away. The energy you entertain has a certain impact on how we conduct ourselves. This could certainly be a vice-versa scenario also (as far as genders), but I only speak from my own perspective as a male who has dealt with this...and seen dudes treated like this, in public, far too often. If you're a woman who feels compelled to do this, or a dude who feels he has to 'take this', just leave. The end. #soapbox #perspective #wkthoughts #society #america #toxic #relationship #drama #august #2018 #nah #skipthat #wke #wklegacy #swerve #🙀 #beentheredonethat #iwasthatguy #nomas #walkaway #incompatible #mgtow #facepalm #stopthemadness #ptsd https://www.instagram.com/p/Bm1SzuGldTZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1v7ky3vwt2o1b

Allow me to take the time to address the notion of me being heralded as a misogynist (or woman-hater) with this vid. We live in a hyper-sensitive society now where people just react to some stuff, without knowing the basis or context of the things that are said (or done). I am very candid and expressive, but a misogynist?? Naw. Some folks truly believe this about me, which is pathetic, and if you do...dismiss yourself from my social media and be sure to let the door hit you on da way out. Misogynist, sexist, racist...I’m not about none of that, so if you mad, just keep it moving. I know it’s haters out here; not gonna act like everybody is out here showing love for me, regardless of what I say. I got a troll squad that follows me wherever I go, but that’s just what it is these days. My DM works, so if you ‘disagree’ with something I say (or how I say it), I’m right here pimps and pimpettes. Feel free to address your concerns to me, and not @reverb (or nobody else). For those who are not afraid to show themselves and yield disapproval of my rhetoric, leave a comment or hit me direct so I can put a ‘face’ to these jabroni followers (or lurkers). Yawl know what I look like and who I am, so I raise you the same. Otherwise, stay off my page if you got grapeskin, cause this ain’t the place. Got love for the peeps that been showing mad love and support, and I appreciate the folks that have been active in their participation of this interactive forum 🙌🏽🙏! #chicago #wke #wklegacy #realtalk #wkthoughts #friday #march #marchmadness #gosox #real #💯 #nofilter #medicinestraight #leo #keepitmoving #swerve #gtfoh #duces #real #wap (at Chicago, Illinois) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvmvCSZlhMO/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=33ammx0q4gi3

#wkthoughts - Some people only love (and treat) you as a possession, and not a person. Know the difference between one who is 'broken-hearted' and one who has a 'broken-ego'. Their entitlement of you falls in-line with their ego. When they put a carrot on a stick, and you don't move, they'll act a fool on you..,proving they only cared about you as a 'prop'. The person you has true love for you won't flip the monopoly board over, just because things are not going their way...but instead will try to persevere to a place of understanding and acceptance. If you're dealing with an egomaniac, let that jive go RIGHT NOW! Don't look back, and don't speak of them as ever existing. #truth #word #tuesday #wke #wklegacy #america #video #blackman #love #ego #relationship #beautifuldestinations #believeinyourself #standup #riseup #nomas #evidence #thoughts #peoplebelike #life #may #2017 #newseason (at Far Southeast Side, Chicago, Illinois)