Shades and Shadows: The Art of Connecting with Deities
As someone who previously held mostly agnostic beliefs, and still does to a certain extent, the idea of connecting with deity is something relatively new to my practice. As I explained in the last post, it wasnât until I discovered the purpose of ritual that it even began to interest me. I was raised Catholic, so my notion of deity was this absurd man in the clouds who may or may not decide your fate in the afterlife. Praying to the white-bearded man in the sky was essentially pleading with him to fix your life or absolve you of your ungodly sins. It didnât make sense to me, it definitely didnât resonate with me, and the older I got the less I wanted anything to do with it. As Jim Jefferies so eloquently stated, âhave the magic man, donât have the magic man, I donât give a fuck.â I never wrote off the idea entirely, I simply felt as though no one could possibly know one way or the other, but I definitely didnât want much to do with the deity I was raised to believe in. He certainly seemed to cause more trouble than anything else. After all, it wasnât the devil drowning the world and plaguing humanity. Since connecting with deities is somewhat new to my practice, it is something Iâm still exploring. Itâs not a necessity for every witch to include in their practice, and it may even be something I ultimately decide isnât for me. But while Iâm currently exploring it, letâs talk about itâŚÂ
There are a number of different reasons a witch may choose to develop a relationship with a deity as a part of their practice. It could be part of the tradition they follow, they may want to honor an innate sense of connection they feel to a particular deity, or it could be that having a working relationship with a deity (or deities) would be of benefit to them in one way or another. Thereâs really no right or wrong here, and there certainly isnât anything wrong with a witch that isnât interested in such or decides itâs just not for them. If itâs something youâre curious about though, itâs something worth investigating. The one thing I will say, especially if youâre new to the craft, is not to feel pressured into making it a part of your practice because it seems like everyone else is doing it. Â
So how do you know which deity to connect with? Iâve often heard stories of witches whose deity came to them in a dream, through meditation, or while âhanging out on the astral.â A good place to start, especially if you find the aforementioned ways off-putting or intimidating, is with the deities that are of interest to you. If youâre already following a specific tradition or interested in a particular pantheon, this can help narrow it down. Understanding your personal goal for having a connection with deities can also be of help. Iâll use myself as an example here⌠It was a few years ago now that I first became interested in the idea of forming a connection with deities. More than anything, I really wanted to know what it was all about. I remember the name Santa Muerte coming up quite a bit, so I decided to look into it. I was able to find a wealth of information on who she was, what she stood for, and how to work with her. At the time, I was also learning cartomancy (which for those who donât know, itâs basically tarot with playing cards) and I happened to have a tattoo imagery deck of playing cards that made me think of this particular deity. I figured why not use the deck as a way to reach out to her. Having already purchased a Santa Muerte candle and incense, I lit both and sat down with the cards; one question in mind, âwould you be willing to work with me?â I will never forget the feeling I got upon seeing the imagery of the cards I pulled. Not only was it a direct answer to my question, but a blatant âyesâ at that. I also couldnât help but feel as though the room had suddenly filled with this loving, almost grandmotherly type of energy (yes, I know weâre getting a bit woo-woo here.) Ultimately, through a number of mistakes over the years, I learned from Santa Muerte what itâs like to have a working relationship as a witch with a particular deity--which, after all, was what I was going for.Â
Forming a connection with a deity doesnât necessarily mean you need to have a working relationship with that deity. As I stated earlier, it could just be a connection you choose to honor. One of the things I want to stress about connecting with deities is that some may come and go, and thatâs ok. Some witches maintain a relationship with one particular deity for the rest of their life. However, sometimes weâre called to certain deities because they have something to teach us or are there to help us through something. There are also times when choosing to form a connection with a particular deity actually leads you down the path to a different deity. Again, thereâs really no right or wrong here. Connecting with a deity is a deeply personal thing. Two witches working with the same deity can have an entirely different experience from one another.Â
With all that being said, I see deities as a means of connecting with the creative energy of the universe through a personified form. The desire for connection to universal creative energies is something inherent in human nature. Where we differ, and rightly so, is how we go about finding and expressing that connection. As an art witch, I generally feel this connection most when Iâm painting. Having learned from my working relationship with Santa Muerte, I much prefer to just simply honor the energies I feel connected with while painting--at least for the time being anyway, that could always change again further down the road. The lessons I learned in working with Santa Muerte and how they influenced my practice could be a post on its own. I would love to know in the comments if thatâs of interest to anyone. Most importantly, what I want you to take away from this is that building a relationship with deities does not make or break your practice as a witch. Like any other tool, it only enhances your craft if itâs of use to you. Coming from an artist though, you may be surprised at some of the rather unconventional tools we make work for us. If you stay open-minded and curious, youâll always have an abundance of tools at your disposal.
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