#wherearethemen

Here’s the sitch: 

My boyfriend of 10 years and I have been living together for 8 years. 4-5 of those years his best friend has lived with us. They work together, live together, workout together, get coffee together, play video games together, smoke weed together....get the point? Well, the past 6-8 months I’ve decided it’s time for his best friend to move out. I think we’ve reached a goal in our relationship of 10 years and we can now live without someone else around at all times. We are nearly all 32 years old....we don’t need a roommate for life. 

Also, this best friend of his brings out the worst in my guy. This is not just my opinion.....many of our elders have noticed this as well. This best friend of his has no respect for his elders. I’ve witnessed many a time and have had many people ask me what I think of him since I live with him. We’ve all come to the same conclusion that he is a disrespectful bully. I’m not asking my guy to not be friends with him. I’m just asking him to ask him to move out and give us some space. 

I’m tired of being the 3rd wheel.