#whatabodtit

Oh no, poor thing! D: I’d be really interested to see his feeding response, honestly. I imagine that, if his food wiggles against his chin or mouth, he probably takes it pretty easily? Or what about smelly foods? I don’t really recommend feeding canned insects to geckos, but they do tend to have a pretty obvious smell to them (so do crickets if they’re kept in a container for more than a few days). I wonder if he’d be able to find those and know what they were? Very interesting, you’ll have to try a few different things and see what works best for him! And don’t forget to calcium dust them for him :)

There is no registration for ESAs and it doesn’t matter what animal you get. You can get whatever animal you would like and all you need to do is get a doctor’s note stating your need. That’s it. There is no special process. 

I also want to reiterate that ESAs do not have public access rights. 

1. describe your idea of a perfect date

Hmm.. I guess the most important part for me is that we get along with each other and that it wouldn’t turn too awkward. I don’t really care about the time and place as long as it’s with someone who makes me laugh and who I can make laugh and.. who is a nice person in general. With good company, anything can turn into an adventure.

8. opinion on nap dates?

Sign me the f up!! I love napping and I’ve heard that when you sleep together with someone it automatically strengthens the trust and closeness between those people. Also, I would love to cuddle someone someday T^T

10. dog gay or cat gay?

I love both cats and dogs but I think I lean more towards dogs because I was raised among them ^^ And I know wayyyyy more about dogs than I do about cats so.. ^^;

13. what is a misconception you had about lgb people before you realized you were one?

Hooooo boy. I’m sorry but this is going to turn dark.. Long story short, I am not exactly proud of the fact that I was raised to be a homophobe. The people in my family treated lgbt people like they were these sick, twisted people who only lived in sin and only followed their sexual urges. Even after I realized I sure as hell wasn’t a heterosexual, I was convinced that the feelings I had were sinful and when I told about them to my family, they flipped their shit completely and said things like “that’s so gross, not in our family, you don’t know what you’re saying, it’s a shock to hear your own daughter say that” etc. Needless to say I was pretty devastated because I had these feelings I couldn’t stop (even though my family said I could if I just wanted to) and that were certainly going to make me “go to hell”. Luckily I had the right group of friends who taught me the truth, to embrace this side of me and eventually saved me from becoming a hateful person. Still to this day I struggle with extreme feelings of guilt and uninvited thoughts towards minorities because of the hate and negativity I was raised to believe since I was very little. It has been a process but now I can proudly say that I side with love and humane values. One thing is certain, I will not teach my own children to follow the philosophy “The people who are not like me are less human” because the one that’s going to suffer the most from that type of thinking is the one who is raised to think like that.

I might have gotten a little sidetracked there but it’s a topic I have so many thoughts on that I could write a book about it lol.

Missed u pal

When will people stop trying to debate slurs with me…

The t slur is a transmisogynistic slur. It is directed at trans women and transfeminine people, so they are the only ones who can reclaim it.

It is sometimes misused against other trans people, yes, but that doesn’t give us the right to use it ourselves.

Like, I’ve been called a b–ch more times than I can count, but I am not a woman and I know that slur is not about me and that it is not my place to try to reclaim it.

Honestly I am so sick of explaining slurs to people on this blog I’m probably just going to delete any more messages I get about this. So stop trying.

awwwwwWWW THANK BRRIII <333

alright sooo 5 things about myself

1. I’m improving my speaking skills which is something I’ve been facing all my life <3

2. I’m a patient person

3. I have white teeth (which was something I haven’t noticed until my 3rd grade teacher told me back in the spring xD)

4. Call me cheesy, but I’m a creative person when it comes to graphic designs (I may not be the best, but I’m slowly starting to like the outcomes of my designs ouo).