#vexgender

Beedle from The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild is an autistic transmasculine autigender buggender beetlegender nesciogender breathaspic yellowgender person who uses he/him and bug/bugs pronouns, and he has a special interest in beetles to the point that he named himself after them!

He has a crush on Link, a nonverbal autistic biromantic greyromantic nebularomantic quoiromantic asexual transmasculine vexgender greengender nonbinary paraboy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!

Vexgender or Vexegender: When one’s gender is in the non-binary/agender spectrum, but pinpointing it beyond that is impossible because the individual does not understand the concept of gender.

Turbogender: A gender that you have tried to figure out but is too confusing and tangled.

Virgender: A gender identity that is practically and particularly genderless. This usually happens when it is too stressful or difficult to have a gender.

Graygender or Gray Agender: Describes a person who is ambivalent about their gender identity/expression, but who identifies at least partially with a gender (defined or not) outside of the binary. They may experience a weak sense of gender, or have difficulty defining their gender, or just not be overly involved in gender as a concept.

Gendervoid or Voidgender: A gender identity defined by absence, a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be.

Mimicnull: A gender that is purely mimicry and reaction to outside stimuli. You have no real baseline gender, just an absence where your gender would be. Designed for neurodivergent folks but anyone can use it. 

Temari from Naruto is a bisexual trans woman with anxiety and PTSD, her younger sibling Kankuro is an aromantic pansexual voidflux hazemasc person with PTSD and ADHD who uses he/him, they/them, and 🎭/🎭s pronouns, their younger sibling Gaara is an autistic autigender quoigender nubilagender vexgender agender person with alexithymia and PTSD who uses they/them, co/cos, and mu/mur pronouns, and they all support each other!

dni transcript under the cut:

I call it vexgender and it is that point for genderfluid people who experience dysphoria but it's just the days where one would have dysphoria despite using the usual things that would mitigate it.

This is just a label that I came up with to help myself deal with those days and to explain it better to outside observers and deal with it better in my autistic mess of a mind.

Vexgender or Vexegender: When one’s gender is in the non-binary/agender spectrum, but pinpointing it beyond that is impossible because the individual does not understand the concept of gender.

Not to be confused with Gendervex.

Term coined by: ash-doggie (based on the Vexe- orientation)

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Designed by: ash-doggie

Color meanings:   

Black represents lack of gender.

Yellow and green represents non-binary/agender.

So I’ve been thinking about this one for a bit, and I think it might be an understandable word, although I haven’t heard it used before. Maybe it could be another term for nonbinary, like if someone knows that they are nonbinary, but not sure exactly what term to use, although there are numerous terms for this already. It could also be used as a term to describe someone who knows that they aren’t cisgendered, but don’t what gender best fits them, so it would kinda be similar to questioning, but the person knows for sure that they are trans.

I was also thinking that maybe it could be used in other forms, like femmevexgender/mascuvexgender (if you guys would like to come up with a better term please do so. I’d also like to state that if there is already a term to describe what I’m about to say, please let me know, I’m probably not aware of it and I am in no way trying to take over definitions that are already being used) to describe someone who knows that they’re feminine/masculine, but aren’t sure if they identify as a female or a demigirl/male or demiboy.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this? I’d love to hear them