drives me nuts how impossible it is to communicate to straight men that you will not be fucking them. there is this seemingly reasonable guy i've met a while ago, who is generally really liked by everyone in my environment. i've mentioned to him that i am a lesbian during our early meetings. i've mentioned having a girlfriend (not currently, though, for all he knows, i might as well still be taken) multiple times. i've mentioned not having any interest in men and, specifically, not any interest in dating or fucking them. when he'd start getting weirdly flirty/sending those "straight man yearning" texts, i would stop replying/change the topic. after he'd mentioned really wanting to see me in person again (not in a group setting) + have me text him first to show more initiative as a "friend", i ended up disappearing. i was sure that he had to have gotten the message after months of me not texting him. ...yet he is back to texting me first. flirting and comments on my looks.
sir how else can i communicate to you that, unless you are capable of having a normal conversation with me, i don't want to hear anything from you. you will not be getting laid. go away.
