#vampyapping

why is it always "being fat puts pressure on ur joints" but never "being skinny makes u more vulnerable to joint/bone injury" like lets be real im not playing this game with u where u get to pretend u know anything about medicine much less my personal case . u are going to have things happen to u and ur body no matter what size u are and pretending fat people are somehow the only people who can possibly sustain weight related injuries PISSES ME OFF . be fucking serious

u people have got to get more normal ab people who don't make sense to u . I mean like people who ramble on and don't know how to have proper conversation . people who are completely incomprehensible . people who talk about delusions and hallucinations . people who can't understand social cues . people with speech impediments or no speech at all . people with vocal tics . not just because it's the decent thing to do but also bc this is most common in the most vulnerable marginalized people . youth , elders , mentally ill , disabled , addicts as well as more generally people with accents & non English speakers .

I hate that not understanding something or getting confused or mixed up is always moralized . like no its not because I "wasn't reading" or "not paying attention" or I "don't care" or on purpose . I just have brain damage etc but that's usually seen as an excuse 🫠🫠 be nicer to intellectually disabled people !!!!! be patient , be understanding , but whatever u do don't minimize their symptoms as some kind of intentional incompetence or having a cold heart . misunderstandings are just that , not a secret signal into someone's malicious plan to feign disability for .... no reason ?

here's the thing ab these transmascs being butthurt that transfem ppl are "always separatists" and "hate tmes" . I have such a difficult time even humoring this (aka I don't) bc all u have to do is just .... not be a raging transmisogynist . like I hope this doesn't come off as weird and feel free to tell me if it does !! but the Vast Majority of my followers and mutuals r transfems . I would honestly place it at somewhere around 85% , and most of them just found me from random reblogs or just interacting with them kindly (and no , sexual advances do not count) . so when I hear whining and bitching ab how much transfems want to "break up the community" what I'm hearing is "I'm mad that these women are not giving me (any kind of) access to them so I can treat them like shit" or honestly "I'm so intolerable to women that they can't stand my presence" too . just like . be nice . tell her she's pretty and that u care ab her . don't spend all ur time online complaining ab how much u hate people like her . idk , its just not that hard to treat women like human beings yk .