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Desircybully hasn't been coined yet ! I'll coin it in the future

!! It's very important to note that negative things said online can affect people outside of your circle ! I don't recommend something like cyberbullying friends who are okay with that even jokingly because othwrs can and will see it and be hurt by it.

Along with that, thinking negative things often can lead you to be a more negative person !

Under no circumstances should you transition to become a cyberbully. here are some tips that can hopefully help lesson the urge to hurt the feelings of others

• Using Twinote to "Post" your private thoughts. Funsta or any other fake social media app could also work for this

• Create a private alt or sideblog where you can send yourself hate mail

• Create a cyberbully OC and use them in storylines

• Instead of hitting "post" or "send ask", draft or copy your message to your notes app. After a few weeks, or months if needbe, ask yourself if that message is still worth sending. If it is, keep it in your notes until it's not, and when it's not, throw it out

• Send people you like aggressive positivity

• Block words and tags that you know trigger you

• Write down your negative statements, do something to ruin the paper, and then recycle it somehow

• Use character(dot)ai or similar to bully them instead

-> Using a name that feels cryptic, is unnatural/rare or hard or confusing to pronounce

-> Cryptic pronouns, it/its pronouns, or no pronouns at all

-> Keep a water bottle that can't be seen through or can only be seen through in one specific area . Drink flavored water and juices from it until you become known as someone who has not water in their water bottle (then you can drink water from it if you prefer)

-> Dark colors. Greens, blacks, red, blues. Wear them

-> If you're able to get tattoos or other body mods, those can be helpful

-> ^ if not, some body mods can be faked. Drawing instead of tattooing, buying fake piercing jewelry etc

-> Conlangs and made up writing systems. Especially if you write on covers and modify clothing with them

-> Be one with nature

An example of what I want, since it's hard to describe otherwise:

I don't care about Star Wars as a franchise all that much. I enjoy it, I guess, but there's other sci-fi things that I like a lot better. But I follow a lot of Star Wars blogs that post wholesome Jedi culture content because if I'm being quite honest, that type of content speaks to something deeply neglected in my soul.

Anyway, what I want isn't to be a Jedi, though I've poked at communities that seek to emulate them and had mixed results.

What I want is to have grown up in a culture that is:

- Non-amatonormative. No one is expected to get married and have biological children. In fact, you're kind of expected not to do that.

- All about adoption and collective childcare, in which all children are loved and cherished by all involved.

- Focused on non-biological, nonromantic, nonsexual mentor/student bonds.

- Dedicated to an ethical code that values unity in diversity, peacekeeping, and preservation of life.

I feel like I have a deep wound in my soul from growing up in an amatonormative capitalistic society focused on nuclear family relations and having spent my life in a society like the one I've described would fix me, but societies like that don't exist.

How do I cope with this? Can I even cope with it?

Hi! So I am very much . Not an adult, but I can try the best I can to help you

I guess the first thing to do is understand that. I guess thats just not the place we are now . I honestly don't know what you'd be able to do to change the physical surroundings around you

So here's what I think would help

Community - While we can't change the general idea of what's around us. We can surround ourselves with people online who have the same beliefs. I'm not sure if there's already an online term for the community you're wanting. You may have to network in some more general communities to find individuals that match your specifics . Sorry

Reading & Writing - Create and indulge in the world you wanna live in. I'm an avid daydreamer, so, if it was me, I would just . Come up with a mental world in which this exists and . Go there when I can

Play pretend - in a sort of "Fake it till you make it" type thing, just try to tell urself that the world is more like this than you think. In the cases that you can, atleast. People around you getting married and having kids? Look at the people around, if not directly around you who arent married. Reason with yourself that there are more people like this than you think. Try to act as if they are in a minority. If that's possible

I don't really have much more for you. I understand that when it comes to a lot of things, I'm in my little echochamber. And you know what? That's ok. I like it here.

Hopefully I was able to help in some way. Thanks for coming by even if you're not desirdae :)

the most popular one is corn syrup with red and a little blue food coloring

watered down seedless raspberry jam with optional food coloring for realism is also an option!1

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Here's a recipe I found . In case someone would rather find on Tumblr than research themself

Ingredients

corn syrup

4 parts red food coloring

1 part blue food coloring

cornstarch

Instructions

In a small bowl add cornsyrup. Add food coloring, adjusting and multiplying to desired saturation. Add cornstarch a little at a time until desired thickness is reached. Drizzle on food for a creepy effect!

Link

Transids are disgusting people who think their identity matters more than the impact it has on others, so many communities talk about how this effects us..but people like you act like you're normal then you make rq ass terms 🤮🤢. I thought you were a decent person until i saw that bullshit. You keep saying you're anti rq but make rq like terms...like how don't you see how vile it is? Genuinely like wtf!? transID is so fucking weird... making alt versions pf transIDs is just as bad as transIDs

Alt👏versions👏of👏transIDs👏are👏just👏as👏bad 👏as👏transIDs

This bullshit is why i can't be safe in the mogai community, you guys act like safe spaces but make alt bs

Hey babes your copypasta doesn't make any sense so next time leave out the "I thought you were a decent person" part of its a blog that. Doesn't have anything other than desirdae stuff. Thats like. My first sign that youre not putting in the effort

Also the mogai bit. As you can see, I've not mentioned or tagged mogai in any of my posts. You can stay in the mogai community, I ain't there on things blog boo

You're free to come try again when you learn how to personalize hate mail! Love you!!

Wear jackets, gloves, sunglasses and hats to keep yourself out of the sunlight

Treat ! A desirdae term for werewolves :)