being aroace has become the most important aspect of myself. i used to hate myself so much for being aroace, so much so that i was in denial about it & tricking myself into thinking i was allo for years, and finally learning to love this part of myself has made me feel so free and happy. i love it so much and it is so important to me now bc of how much internalized hatred i used to have and bc aro/ace ppl are still, sadly, discriminated, oppressed, and erased, even by fellow queer ppl. loving my orientation has become a huge source of comfort & happiness, especially after hating myself for so long, and also is a huge "fuck you" to society/everyone who has made me (and other aro/ace ppl) feel ashamed of being who i am. being aroace is a beautiful gift, i love being aroace!!! 🧡💛🤍🩵💙
