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ubekendt replied to your post: my billboard magazine has been shipped yeahaaa
I thought about you when I found my copy in my mailbox today. I’m glad it’s on the way to you.
oh, that’s so sweet :) yeay, happy that you got yours, I’m over here living in narnia so it’s normal for me to get things much later than anywhere else lol
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ubekendt replied to your post: [[MOR] So it’s like a fucking weight has been...
I think you’re right about this fandom being really intense. I’ve been around the block a couple of times with fandoms and even if there has been a lot of excitement in other fandoms especially building up to a release/premiere/big game, nothing has ever been as intense as the 1D fanbase (from my perspective at least) and it can be quite scary and intimidating and I do sometimes get the feeling that I’m too old for this fandom because I just can’t relate to all of that
You have no idea how nice and important it is for me to hear that. I think one of the aspects of this fandom I’ve got the most trouble with is the... performative aspect of it? Like, Niall puts out a song, you’re SUPPOSED to be freaking out about it. It’s expected. Your dash goes up in flames, and if you don’t feel like joining it, suddenly it’s like you’re at a party, standing in a corner looking at books on the shelf while everyone else is having fun. So you end up either forcing yourself to act all thrilled, or grumbling to yourself about kids these days and how you don’t need anyone to have fun.
That’s the part I think gets to me the most. That’s why I end up blacklisting ten words in one go, or making counter-posts about how not-thrilled I am, just because I still want to participate, but i can’t make myself fake enthusiasm. I don’t know. I love everyone on my dash, I love seeing them happily freaking out, I’m not saying I want them to go away. But clearly I need to find ways to cope with this without turning into an old grumpy grandma. :p
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Feel free. I have macaroons and pepsi max. Oh and...
macaroons 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 those are my fave
ubekendt replied to your post “career dilemma is when you’re being offered a permanent position in...”
I wouldn't see it as wasting your degree, a lot of people don't work within their field of study. What's more important is that you can see yourself doing the job long term and if you're happy to do it. Of course job security is a nice thing to have and taking the job now, doesn't mean you can't apply for a position within chemical engineering later on.
I love your first point. Lots of my friends didn’t start with jobs related to our degree too back then. But at least they have started fresh, not like me who started as an engineer and now a few years later, maybe not doing the same job anymore. Which is, refreshing but a bit scary too.
ubekendt replied to your photoset “the struggle to choose ����”
The middle one is so soft, the left one so arty. I want them both
lol still, a struggle right?
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ubekendt replied to your post: One of my niall gifs just got used by a porn blog...
Of course now I’m trying to figure out which one XD
It was the "Hello lovers" one, with the irish flag. Neatly put under a SUPER graphic gif of a couple fucking. 😂😂😂
ubekendt replied to your post “Stuck in the train station yet again. I swear to god the sncf got a...”
My only experience with the French rail system was going from Nice to Monaco for the Formula One. One of the first days we caught the last train before the trains went on strike for a couple of hours. The other days we got on random trains that weren't announced but that said the right destination on them or were announced and had the wrong destination on them but were at the right spot and somehow we always ended up the right place. French rail will forever be a mystery
... that sounds like the French railway system alright, lmao! There is nothing quite like boarding a train and having the automated messages proudly declare your train is going in a totally opposite direction to where you want to go even though you know the platform is saying this is the right train. Takes a leap of faith to stay inside, let me tell you.
@ubekendt replied to your post “do you think shawn and niall can get together and actually write?? we...”
I imagine they get together all the time to write songs that end up abandoned because they can't keep their hands off each other. The only thing worse than their so-called writing sessions are the finished songs they've written about each other. Their labels have them all filed away in a locked box called "The X-files" which no-one dares to go near.
MMM I think this is definitely canon.
@mildlymaddy replied to your post “Shawn sings very heterosexual music laced with mysonginy and...”
I've been listening to Shawn's second album non stop all week and mostly his songs make me cringe with second hand embarrassment (in a tender way) because it's sooooo terribly about highschool drama and feelings. I can't wait to see the kind of songs he'll write once he's a lil' bit older!
oh yeah, he’s super young and it definitely shows in his songwriting. that’s how I feel about early 1D but the worst part is most of those were written by adults LMAO like Shawn actually did write these as a teenager! I def think there’s an aspect to it like, people coming into pop think they have to conform to a certain standard before they can do what they want, even if they’re writing their own stuff. but I agree, his writing will just improve and he’s really not bad to begin with.
