#trauma.overload

Limiting contact and keeping the child away from the other parent

Not informing the other parent of important information (medical, education)

Not allowing a child to express his or her love for the other parent

Not allowing the child to speak freely about the other parent

Manipulating a child into believing that the other parent is all bad and does not deserve a relationship with the child

Brainwashing a child into fearing the other parent.

Manipulating a child's feelings or bribing them in order to interfere in the child's relationship with the other parent.

1.) For needing some love, acknowledgement and appreciation for them.

2.) For expecting them to show some regard for your feelings.

3.) For needing support when you are upset, struggling or ill.

4.) For daring to ask for respect or loyalty from them.

5.) For not doing 100% of the work in the relationship, without complaint.

6.) For objection to their gross selfishness

7.) For wanting them to play a role in parenting their own children.

8.) For wanting them to spend a little quality time with you.

9.) For being too sensitive and objecting to being the butt of their "jokes".

10.) For not condoning their kind of irresponsible or harmful "fun".

11.) For any financial expenditure you make, no matter how essential.

~ You feel mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted..

~ You are constantly on high alert, or feel like you are always walking on egg shells

~ You feel like you lost yourself, and no longer know who you are...

~ You feel isolated and lonely

~ You are suffering from low self esteem and you never feel good enough, or you may feel like there i something wrong with you..

~ You suffer from depression and/or anxiety

~ You are in a constant state of confusion and life feels overwhelming, and you often feel like you don't know what you are doing.

~ You are having trouble being functional, and accomplishing everyday tasks..

~your entire wellbeing is suffering and you are getting physical symptoms like headaches, or other physical problems and/or illnesses as a result of chronic stress in these relationships..

When you leave a narcissist or are in the process of leaving them, be prepared.

They go on a campaign to make you look guilty, and at fault. The narcissist will purposely do things, like making you beg for money, not following through on the things they agreed to do, along with doing things they know will evoke negative reactions out of you. They also do this to punish you.

They purposely frustrate you until you lose your temper. Some will do things like, record you to show everyone that YOU are the crazy one and out of control. They also will evoke reactions from you in front of others by insidiously doing things they know will bother you. They do this until you finally react in anger and then they point the finger saying, “you are the crazy one" or “you are out of control".

Quickly declares you are their soulmate! And for some reason, you don't find it creepy. They tell you how much you they have in common with you. On the first few dates, you do most of the talking, and they just can't believe how perfect you are for them.